【中央社╱台北3日電】 2010.01.03 05:57 pm
對中國城市的新女性而言,「三從四德」早就不合時宜,要人生完滿,需達成「十得」,其中一得就是「鬥得過二奶」。
香港中通社報導,依照當下流行的標準,新世代中國女性應「上得了廳堂,下得了廚房,寫得了代碼,查得出異常,殺得了木馬,翻得了圍牆,開得起好車,買得
起新房,鬥得過二奶,打得過流氓。」「十得」缺一不可。
這則標準雖不乏調笑成分,卻因反映目前大陸社會現實,而在網際網路上瘋狂流傳,且在一夕之間被許多女性用做個人網路簽名。
「鬥得過二奶」是「十得」標準中最廣為流傳的一句。2009年中國大陸人氣最高的電視劇「蝸居」便是切中當地「二奶」現象(「二奶」指婚姻中的第三
者),而成為全民話題。
隨著中國內地(大陸)權利階層和新富階層醜聞不斷曝光,龐大的「二奶」群體逐漸浮現於公眾面前,並有向普通人群滲透的趨勢。
一位初入商界不久的石先生發現,「二奶」儼然已經成為判斷一個商人信譽度的標準,包養的「二奶」越多,說明這個人資金實力越雄厚,和他做生意就越牢
靠。
而在女性眼裡,那些能與「二奶」鬥智鬥勇並且最終取得勝利的同性才是真正的當代「花木蘭」。在這種心態下,2009年中國網路論壇上人氣最高的帖子之一
是,一個天蠍座的妻子講述自己如何用盡手腕令前夫及其「二奶」身敗名裂,許多女網民看後都留言表示支持正妻,還有人說要以她為榜樣。
「二奶」帶給現代都市女性的衝擊是多種多樣的。32歲的北京公務員陳鳴雖然家庭和美,兒子也已蹣跚學步,不過她對婚姻始終有危機感。
「身邊各種各樣的事情給我最大的啟發是,我們自己就應該活得像個『二奶』。」陳鳴說,「雖然生活也操心,也有壓力,但不要讓它把自己變的那麼瑣碎。一想
到40歲以後還有20歲的競爭對手,我就決心要體貼自己,愛惜自己、嬌慣自己。正所謂走『二奶』的路,讓『二奶』無路可走。」
在「十得」標準中,「翻得了圍牆」是指能夠通過代理軟體登陸被中國官方封殺或屏蔽的網站獲取資訊。
2009年以來,大陸互聯網(網際網路)規管有收緊趨勢,近日,廣電總局等部門整肅視聽網站又升級,因此導致大陸網民中「翻牆」行動頗盛。
Facts about abianchen/Meichi the despicable ugly lesbian Philippino
whore:
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/ca085dc133ad3cae
Abianchen is a fraud, and above all, she is damn UGLY!
Picture of "abianchen" the Ugly:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/64156901@N00/3415206204/
On Jan 3, 4:28 am, "abianc...@my-deja.com" <abianc...@my-deja.com>
wrote:
Hey Psycho Xangdi (now Dabian eater), why don't you learn Chinese so
you can flame abianchen in Chinese to show how cool you are, eh?
Here's some Chinese for you Psycho Xangdi (Dabian eater), haha!
賈潘叔, 真蜈蜙, 甘霖老木賽羚羊! 聽不懂吧?! 好爽! 哈哈!
Oops, Psycho Xangdi (Dabian eater) has no clue what I am saying in
Chinese that must make him more jealous and mad with more silly lies
to harass abianchen. Cool!
On Jan 3, 5:37 am, Anti-DabianchenVirus <wuso...@rocketmail.com>
wrote:
> > 2009年以來,大陸互聯網(網際網路)規管有收緊趨勢,近日,廣電總局等部門整肅視聽網站又升級,因此導致大陸網民中「翻牆」行動頗盛。- Hide quoted text -
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Hey Psycho Xangdi (now Dabian eater), why don't you learn Chinese so
you can flame abianchen in Chinese to show how cool you are, eh?
Here's some Chinese for you Psycho Xangdi (Dabian eater), haha!
賈潘叔, 真蜈蜙, 甘霖老木賽羚羊! 聽不懂吧?! 好爽! 哈哈!
Oops, Psycho Xangdi (Dabian eater) has no clue what I am saying in
Chinese that must make him more jealous and mad with more silly lies
to harass abianchen. Cool!
On Jan 3, 6:48 am, Anti-DabianchenVirus <wuso...@rocketmail.com>
wrote:
> No, you don't see! Look:
>
> Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, can't read/write Chinese
> other than cutting-and-pasting from the internet:
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/7576019d05116a21...
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/2820117f3da3ac55...
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/83029bb548080af5...
>
> Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are a pathological liar:
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/ee41fc07a8921a88...
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/995a71070728ba0c...
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/fdeab5e65d151e9c...
>
> Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are not a "guy from
> Taiwan":
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/fc81fe43d9c693e2...
>
> Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, make persitent childish
> and girlish claims:
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/7d3d15d1e66e4876...
>
> Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are a loser:
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/8af8fda3a280e511...
>
> Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are a Philippino girl:
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/31e3f301c13dbbbe...
>
> Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are childish and
> repetitive:
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/5646b3ef057db25d...
>
> On Jan 3, 4:45 am, "abianc...@my-deja.com" <abianc...@my-deja.com>
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On Jan 3, 6:28 pm, "abianc...@my-deja.com" <abianc...@my-deja.com>
wrote:
Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, can't read/write Chinese
other than cutting-and-pasting from the internet:
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/7576019d05116a21?hl=en
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/2820117f3da3ac55?hl=en
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/83029bb548080af5?hl=en
Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are a pathological liar:
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/ee41fc07a8921a88?hl=en
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/995a71070728ba0c?hl=en
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/fdeab5e65d151e9c?hl=en
Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are not a "guy from
Taiwan":
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/fc81fe43d9c693e2?hl=en
Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, make persitent childish
and girlish claims:
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/7d3d15d1e66e4876?hl=en
Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are a loser:
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/8af8fda3a280e511?hl=en
Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are a Philippino girl:
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/31e3f301c13dbbbe?hl=en
Proof that you, abianchen/Meichi/report2009, are childish and
repetitive:
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/5646b3ef057db25d?hl=en
Hey Psycho Xangdi (now Dabian eater), why don't you learn Chinese so
you can flame abianchen in Chinese to show how cool you are, eh?
Here's some Chinese for you Psycho Xangdi (Dabian eater), haha!
賈潘叔, 真蜈蜙, 甘霖老木賽羚羊! 聽不懂吧?! 好爽! 哈哈!
Oops, Psycho Xangdi (Dabian eater) has no clue what I am saying in
Chinese that must make him more jealous and mad with more silly lies
to harass abianchen. Cool!
On Jan 3, 7:11 am, Anti-DabianchenVirus <wuso...@rocketmail.com>
On Jan 3, 2:28 am, "abianc...@my-deja.com" <abianc...@my-deja.com>
wrote:
HOW CAN YOU SEE ANYTHING. YOUR EYES ARE SHUT AND CLOSED-MINDED.
HOW CAN YOU SEE ANYTHING. YOUR EYES ARE SHUT AND CLOSED-MINDED.
On Jan 3, 2:45 am, "abianc...@my-deja.com" <abianc...@my-deja.com>
wrote:
Penang said this to abienchen: "You already know that Rusty is a nut
case."
Bill Moore said this to Rusty Old Fool: "You are crazier than I had
previously thought."
Peter Terpstra said this to Rusty Old Fool: "My pray and wish for you
is to become a Human Being with a heart and a bit of sanity."
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Gee, still try to sell your stupid lies, huh? Has anyone believed you
and Rusty's lies? NOBODY!!!
Why don't you and Rusty go back to drawing board and make up some
convincing lies? Or have your bf fuck your brain out to see if he can
make you a bit smarter. Haha!
On Jan 3, 12:52 pm, Anti-DabianchenVirus <wuso...@rocketmail.com>
wrote:
> http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.china/msg/a123999fbab308cd...
Gee, Psycho Xangdi (now Dabian eater), still try to sell your stupid
lies, huh? Has anyone believed you and Rusty's stupid lies that
Chinese guy abianchen is "Filipino whore Meichi"? NOBODY!!!
Why don't you and Rusty go back to drawing board and make up some
convincing lies? Or have your bf or use your own sex toy fuck your
brain out to see if that can make you a bit smarter. Haha!
On Jan 3, 3:49 pm, Anti-DabianchenVirus <wuso...@rocketmail.com>
wrote:
Gee, Psycho Xangdi (now Dabian eater), still try to sell your stupid
lies, huh? Has anyone believed you and Rusty's stupid lies that
Chinese guy abianchen is "Filipino whore Meichi"? NOBODY!!!
Why don't you and Rusty go back to drawing board and make up some
convincing lies? Or have your bf or use your own sex toy fuck your
brain out to see if that can make you a bit smarter. Haha!
On Jan 4, 1:17 am, Anti-DabianchenVirus <wuso...@rocketmail.com>
Gee, Psycho Xangdi (now Dabian eater), still try to sell your stupid
lies, huh? Has anyone believed you and Rusty's stupid lies that
Chinese guy abianchen is "Filipino whore Meichi"? NOBODY!!!
Why don't you and Rusty go back to drawing board and make up some
convincing lies? Or have your bf or use your own sex toy fuck your
brain out to see if that can make you a bit smarter. Haha!
On Jan 4, 2:56 am, Anti-DabianchenVirus <wuso...@rocketmail.com>
This is a beautiful Philippino girl:
http://woody.typepad.com/files/miss_america_katie_stam_big.jpg
This is an ugly Philippino girl posting in SCC using IDs of abianchen/
report2009:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/64156901@N00/3415206204/
Oops, Psycho Xangdi (Dabian eater) has no clue what I am saying in
Chinese that must make him more jealous and mad with more silly lies
to harass abianchen. Cool!
On Jan 4, 3:15 am, Anti-DabianchenVirus <wuso...@rocketmail.com>
wrote:
> ...
>
> read more >>- Hide quoted text -
This is a beautiful Philippino girl:
http://woody.typepad.com/files/miss_america_katie_stam_big.jpg
This is an ugly Philippino girl posting in SCC using IDs of abianchen/
report2009:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/64156901@N00/3415206204/
Can't even read English, can you?
"Here's some"? Bwahahahaha!!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/64156901@N00/3415206204/
On Jan 4, 3:14 am, report2009 <repost20...@yahoo.com> wrote: