Don,
Practice, practice, practice... If you don't actually try to speak the language and listen to others speaking the language, it will never stick in any significant way. I once met an old gringo out Cahuita way that had lived in Costa Rica for 10+ years and didn't speak a lick of Spanish (according to what the locals told me.) He never tried and never learned. I've also known several gringos who came down and found a nice Spanish-speaking girlfriend, but with one common flaw... those girlfriends also spoke English. Those gringos never learned Spanish in any significant way. I dove in like a kid into a candy jar, and by the time I came up for fresh air, I was married to a super nice Tica... who didn't speak a lick of English. jajaja. Immersion works. And lack thereof as well. To this day she only knows one phrase in English: "Let's go to bed my love." Until we started raising little ones, nobody in my house spoke English besides me. That and partying with Ticos has forced me to practice every day, and I still am a long way from fluent. In part, I blame that on nobody wanting to be disrespectful and correct me when I mispeak -- even though I've been demanding that for years. But everyone learns a new language like a baby, and until one gets really practiced at it, one is bound to sound foolish and be hard to understand. That is one of the problems many Ticos have with learning English -- están demasiado avergonzados de sonar como un bebé. Now we've got 3.5 little ones and a dog that in varying degrees understand and try to speak English. I get to see this in action in real young learner time. The one with the least amount of vergüenza is by far the best English speaker of our Brady bunch.
¡La práctica hace al maestro! ;-)
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Sam