My club has a junior member that is in this category, having Asperger's. The first impression from one of our instructors was that he" just didn't get it" and had a poor attention span. It seemed that he was not interested or engaged. In talking with him it was clear that he really loved flying and wanted to learn. When his mom told us about his condition things made more sense.
When he did not understand, he would hide it. He didn't want to seem dumb. Likely learned in school. We taught him that if he did not understand he had to say" I don't understand".
When a question was asked, many times the answer was "I don't know". If asked if he just could not figure out the word, commonly the answer was yes. When asked to answer the best he can, most answers show knowledge and understanding. He is learning to communicate.
The other challenge has been to get him to stop waiting for direction and take the action he thinks is correct. He is now doing that and is at the point of being able to fly the whole flight. He has taken about 50% more flights to get to this point than other similar age students.
He will get a lot more practice and training, particularly as we add odd conditions to see how he responds.
His mom has noted that what he is learning at the airport is showing up in the rest of his life.
He busts his butt on the line like no other member.
We have him on full scholarship.
I don't know if he will solo. I hope so. We just have to be patient.
There is not much more important than what we can do for him.
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