Dear Liesl,
The specialized ass-ometer (seriously) as described by others gives the most repeatable results. You might even like their saddles (most stores have a loaner program--take them up on it if interested).
I am comfortable (depending on context) on saddles ranging from 135mm to 170mm wide (if I sat genuinely upright on a cruiser, I bet a wider saddle would be okay, too), and sit right at the border between Specialized "narrow" and "meduium" widths. I do tend to trend toward saddles in the 140-145mm width range in plastic saddles, and around 160mm in suspended leather saddles, all with moderate pitch (fore-aft variation in elevation) and only slight to moderate roll (side to side curvature).
Funny enough, I just slapped a Selle San Marco "bontrager titanio" saddle on my Boulder Road Sport bike and took it out, untested, for a 6 1/2 hour ride this afternoon. It was a climbing-intensive ride on an undergeared bike (so plenty of time out of the saddle in the 42X23), but it did fine. No numbness or squeaking soft parts. Width (checking with the calipers...): 116 mm! It is basically a 145mm saddle with the sides cut down for Keith's vision of mountain bike use (back in 1992), but proof that you never know what'll work well enough....
The Assometer, it isn't a bad starting place, but I wouldn't expect bone width to correspond too exactly to your preferred saddle. The proof of the saddle is in the seating.
Best,
Will
William M. deRosset
Fort Collins, CO