Thanks everyone! I've been offline for a few days as I got home after Europe, then was ill for a week. :-(
I've tried to address people's comments below.
Cjell: I owned ALANs at various times in the 1980s and really liked them, even the most flexible ones. Yes, the forks did flex fore and aft noticeably, but this did not have any adverse effects on handling; the bikes tracked dead straight IME. Rumor had it that ALAN cut the dropout slots after the forks were bonded together. Whatever the reason, the frames I rode were all very directionally stable, way more so than steel frames of the time. Now, I know that any visible flex is anathema to some people, but in no way did I find those frames or forks a problem. In fact, what I'd like to do is try to recreate the same ride in steel, but it may not be possible.
Had a quick look at pics of Oddity Cycles, and to me the stays look sort of like mixte midstays, but connected partway along the down tube, or to a more normal sized top tube, rather than having full length twin lats. Small diameter, non-triangulated seatstays are becoming more common, for instance on current Giant Defy frames, and ISTR an article in Bicycle Guide about a Tango (tandem builder) single bike which used similarly low-angle seatstays in an attempt to increase ride comfort; BG thought it worked.
I agree that supple tyres can only help, but at least in the case of the GR, they are not enough by themselves. YMMV; the GR is the only bike I've ever owned or ridden for any length of time that I've actively hated. Unfortunately by the time I realised this I was overseas, and buying a new frame and wheelset wasn't a viable option.
Mark Bulgier said: I disagree, if you're talking about straight seatstays in compression. For seatstays of equal length and same material (same modulus of inertia), their stiffness depends only on their cross-sectional area – essentially, their weight, given same material (thus density). Heavier seatstays will be stiffer in compression regardless of diameter. This is for compression within the bounds of stresses where the stays remain in a straight line, a classic column. Long thin columns (such as a wire) will not remain straight under even low compressive stress, but I think normal seatstays pretty much do remain straight within the range of normal riding stresses.
So Mark, are you saying that cross sectional area is all that counts, and section modulus is irrelevant for seatstays??? If so I may as well use the S3 stays I have now, as they're very light. As to curved stays, I agree that those selling them have reasons to slant any data. They may still do something though.
m-gineering: Seatstay flex causing handling problems: I doubt this is matters in reality, unless one is perhaps Mark Cavendish or similar. Some of recent carbon frames use stays that are very thin indeed, but I haven't heard any reports about dodgy handling. And I'm light and not terribly big so for me it's unlikely to be a problem anyway.
Hahnster: The 55cm GR wasn't (IMO) set up particularly strangely; the position was made to echo the Tony Oliver audax bike I've had since 1982. Now that might be a bit non-standard as I have longer than average femurs and arms, so the seat is right back on a very offset post, and the bike has a (nominally) 120mm 3T stem - actual horizontal length C-C is more like 112mm.The original fork was out of spec, with the actual measured head angle being 72 arather than 72.5 degrees, and the offset being 74mm not 69mm. These were measured with a digital angle finder and an Anvil fork jig respectively. The fork used for PBP had Columbus SL blades and 60mm offset (yielding 45mm trail instaed of 31mm), unfortunately not with a particularly tight bend as a suitable former was not available. Still, the bike handled better/mpore predictably than stock with every load condition: barbag only (GB22 plus Nitto rack + Gillles Berthoud decaleur modified to reduce the forward reach), barbag plus Revelate saddlebag, these plus 28 litre front panniers on a Tubus Tara rack. It *still* wanted to shimmy occasionally without the front panniers, and did so on a twisty wet descent on the last night of PBP; I am not a fan of low trail. I'd ideally change everything about the GR(!), including: seat angle 71-ish not 73.5, BB ~8mm lower, chainstays 430-440mm not 415, more trail (less offset), shorter seat tube and longer post for more flex, longer top tube (more reach and shorter stem), thinner wall tubing everywhere but with a 28.6 top tube to prevent the head tube twisting with a load (I like BB flex but despise instability). Oh yes, and no canti brakes! (I'm also not convinced that 700c wouldn't be better for PBP, or faster at least.)
Re tube flex from brazed on brakes (Jim G): whilst this can be annoying, it's not the end of the world and is usually easily fixed by using a brake booster. I'd rather do that than have a super rough ride. My old MTB with Ritchey Logic forks felt much better with a booster plate, and in fact I had to change to Shimano cantis from DC 987s as the latter couldn't be made not to squeal, due apparently to the way the pads were attached to the arms.
Later,
Stephen