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Your Daily Reprieve for Saturday  December  21, 2019

 

From Jacksonville, FL

 

 

"Christmas is forever, not for just one day,
for loving, sharing, giving, are not to put away
like bells and lights and tinsel, in some box upon a shelf.
The good you do for others is good you do yourself..."

~Norman Wesley Brooks, "Let Every Day Be Christmas," 1976

 

Christmas is not a time nor a season,

but a state of mind.

To cherish peace and goodwill,

to be plenteous in mercy,

is to have the real spirit of Christmas.

~Calvin Coolidge

*****

"Every tomorrow has two handles.

We can take hold of it by the handle of anxiety,

or by the handle of faith."

~Anonymous

 

"With the gift of listening comes the gift of healing."

--Catherine de Hueck Doherty

 

"Dwelling on the negative simply contributes to its power."

--Shirley MacLaine

 

Take a break. Move around. Learn to change your perspective.

Maybe you don't need to change what you're looking at. You just need

to change where you stand.

--Melody Beattie

 

 

 

Big Book Quote

 

Despite all we can say, many who are real alcoholics are not going
to believe they are in that class. By every form of self-deception
and experimentation, they will try to prove themselves exceptions to the rule, therefore nonalcoholic. If anyone who is showing inability to control his drinking can do the right-about-face and drink like a gentleman, our hats are off to him. Heaven knows, we have tried hard enough and long enough to drink like other people!

~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, More About Alcoholism, pg. 31~

 

 

 

Daily Share!

 

AA Speaker of the Day

 

CHUCK D

@Central Orlando Group

10.02.2010

 

http://bit.ly/2s07Z7V

 

Wee Willie’s

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Celebrate Your Anniversary Here

SHOW NEWCOMERS HOW IT WORKS!!

Send your sober date to tx...@comcast.net

 

 

SOBER DATE

YOUR NAME

YOUR LOCATION

YEARS SOBER

6/10 (mo/day)

Bob S

Akron, OH

83

 

It will look like this :

6/10 Bob S. (Akron, OH).....84

 

December 2019 Miracles

 

12/1 Beth S. (Albuquerque, NM/Madison, NH)…..24

12/2 Wendy M. (Scottsdale, AZ)…..30

12/3 Ancil D. (Bloomington, IN)…..1

13/3 Walter S. (Jacksonville, FL)…..26

12/4 Fred E. (Stuttgart, DE)…..8

12/4 Mike K. (Floral Park, NY)…..1

12/4 Lisa B. (Trenton, MI)…..24

12/5 Sophie G. (Larchmont, NY)…..7

12/5 Bob H. ()…..35

12/5 Matt G. (Colts Neck, NJ)…..11

12/6 Dave B. (Venice, FL)…..28

12/6 Nikki G. (Flemington, NJ)…..9

12/7 Steve O. (Osteen, FL)…..27

12/7 Georgia O. (Stuart, FL)…..41

12/7 Nan G. (Los Altos, CA/Nantucket, MA)…..23

12/8 Lynne L. (Portland, OR)…..46

12/8 Ed B. (Lawrenceville, NJ)…..18

12/10 Susan M. (Mendham, NJ)…..1

12/10 Wendell M. (Bothell, WA)…..6

12/10 Paul K/ Gypsy (Nantucket MA / Anguilla)…..13

12/10 Kathy R. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..9

12/11 Dawn K. ()…..12

12/11 Brendan B. (At Home)…..1

12/12 Mitch B. (Evanston, IL)…..33

12/12 Linda B. (marylnd, NY)…..6

12/13 Tom O. (Milwaukee WI_.....13

12/14 Linda M. (Salem, NH)…..7

12/14 Bob P. (Cullman, AL)…..29

12/15 John M. (Paros, Greece)…..17

12/15 Taleah M. (NY, N Y)…..2

12/15 Bill M. (Goodyear, AZ/Caguas, PR)…..34

12/16 Mike S. (Raleigh, NC)…..3

12/16 Carrie F. (Selinsgrove, PA)…..15

12/16 Heather V. (Nantucket, MA)…..2

12/17 Joe K. (North Port, FL)…..36

12/18  Chris V. (Nashville, TN)…..12

12/18 Kevin T. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..27

12/18 Melissa B. (Cape Cod, MA)…..1

12/18 John K. (Stuart, FL)…..7

12/19 Autumn M. (Jacksonville, FL)…..2

12/19 Kathleen S. (Haverhill, MA)…..39

12/19 Mary F. (West Newbury, MA)…..21

12/19 Karen G. (Brooklyn, NY)…..7

12/19 Autumn M. (Jacksonville, FL)…..3

12/19 Brian K. (Ossipee, NH)…..8

12/20 Lory W. (Winchester, UK)…..19

12/21 Bridget C. (Albany, NY)…..17

12/21 Moira N. (New Rochelle, NY)…..8

12/22 Dick McD. (New York, NY)…..42

12/23 Pete G. (Larchmont, NY)…..39

12/23 Carol H. (Amarillo, TX)…..13

12/23 Cathy B. (Princeton, NJ)…..15

12/23 Lee H. (San Francisco, CA)…..29

12/23 Dave L. ()…..2

12/24 Peter S. (Manhattan, NY)…..19

12/24 Eric O. (Kennebunkport, ME)…..5

12/25 Lynn I. (Port Charlotte, FL)…..30

12/26 Chick R. (Oak Forest, IL)…..22

12/27 Zoe R. (Kent, UK)…..1

12/28 Johanna T. (Cobleskill, NY)…..19

12/28 Chris A. (Basking Ridge, NJ)…..2

12/28 Melissa C. (Acton, MA)…..5

12/30 Rufus W. (Coppell, TX)…..46

12/31 Aussie Ian (Bangkok)…..25

12/31 Jake R. (Prattville, AL)…..44

12/31 Tabatha J. (Charlotte, NC)…..7

 

 

1144  Total Years of Sobriety

 

12&12

 

Step Four - "Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves."

Step Four is our vigorous and painstaking effort to discover what these liabilities in each of us have been, and are. We want to find exactly how, when, and where our natural desires have warped us. We wish to look squarely at the unhappiness this has caused others and ourselves. By discovering what our emotional deformities are, we can move toward their correction. Without a willing and persistent effort to do this, there can be little sobriety or contentment for us. Without a searching and fearless moral inventory, most of us have found that the faith which really works in daily living is still out of reach.

pp. 42-43



 

 

Twenty-Four Hours

 

A.A. Thought For The Day

Have I ceased being inwardly defeated, at war with
myself? Have I given myself freely to A.A. and to the
Higher Power? Have I got over being sick inside? Am I
still wandering mentally or am I "on the beam?" I can
face anything, if I am sure I am on the way. When I am
sure, I should bet my life on A.A. I have learned how
the program works. Now will I follow it with all I
have, with all I can give, with all my might, with all
my life? Am I going to let A.A. principles guide the rest
of my life?

Meditation For The Day

In this time of quiet meditation, follow the pressure of
the Lord's leading. In all decisions to be made today,
yield to the gentle pressure of your conscience. Stay or
go as that pressure indicates. Take the events of today
as part of God's planning and ordering. He may lead you
to a right decision. Wait quietly until you have an inner
urge, a leading, a feeling that a thing is right, a
pressure on your will by the spirit of God.

Prayer For The Day

I pray that today I may try to follow the inner pressure
of God's leading. I pray that I may try to follow my
conscience and do what seems right today.



Daily Thought

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Fear

"We have had a much keener look at ourselves and those about us. We have seen that we were prodded by unreasonable fears and anxieties into making a life business of winning fame, money, and what we thought was leadership. So false pride became the reverse side of that ruinous coin marked 'Fear.' We simply had to be Number One people to cover up our deep-lying inferiorities."
1952 AAWS
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, p. 123


Thought to Consider . . .

S
ituations I fear are rarely as bad as the fear itself.

*~*AACRONYMS*~*

F E A R
Frantic Efforts to Appear Recovered




Daily Reflection

 

LISTEN, SHARE AND PRAY

When working with a man and his family, you should take

care not to participate in their quarrels. You may spoil

your chance of being helpful if you do.

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 100

 

When trying to help a fellow alcoholic, I've given in to an

impulse to give advice, and perhaps that's inevitable. But

allowing others the right to be wrong reaps its own

benefits. The best I can do— and it sounds easier than it is

to put into practice— is to listen, share personal

experience, and pray for others.

 

 

 

 

Pot Luck

 

I know I have another drunk in me, but I don’t know if I have another recovery."

 

A shiver shot down my spine when I first heard this quote. I know how easy it would be for me to pick up a cold Heineken or glass of Cabernet Sauvignon at a nice restaurant. And my disease even tries to convince me I could handle it now. “It’s been years since you’ve had a drink,” it whispers. “You can handle a glass of wine and enjoy it like others do,” it says.


As I think that first drink through, I know I might get away with it, but inevitably I would end up drunk. I know myself well enough to know how obsessive I still am—I can prove that with a large bag of M&M’S. I know I’ve easily got another drunk in me, but I can’t say the same thing about recovery. That’s why this quote resonates so deeply and still gives me the chills.


Getting sober and working the Twelve Steps was a lot of work. Good work, to be sure, but it took countless surrenders, unparalleled willingness, and a humbling of my ego that only the desperation of the drowning can understand. If the embers of alcoholism were lit again, I don’t know if I’d ever be able to contain them. That’s why I pray to God in the morning to keep me sober another day, and I thank Him at night for doing so. I know how easy it would be to get drunk again, but I don’t know if I have the grace and willingness for another recovery.

 

http://www.thewisdomoftherooms.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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AA Membership Survey (2014)

http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/p-48_membershipsurvey.pdf

 

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http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/Members/2015-Membership-Survey/Survey-Results-Page-2

 

 

 

Meditation Resources

 

http://www.peterrussell.com/TV/3Min.php

 

*****

 

Loving Kindness Meditations

 

With Music

 

http://www.excelatlife.com/mp3/direct_download.php?file=lovingkindnessmusic.mp3

 

 

Voice only

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Free Guided Meditations

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Resources

 

Great Minds Quotes

https://twitter.com/GreatestQuotes

 

BIG BOOK SEARCH ENGINE:

http://www.whytehou se.com/big_ book_search/

 

Twenty Four Hours a Day

Since 1954, Twenty-Four Hours a Day has become a stable force in the recovery of many alcoholics

throughout the world. With over nine million copies in print (the original text has been revised),

this "little black book" offers daily thoughts, meditations, and prayers for living a clean and sober life.

A spiritual resource with practical applications to fit our daily lives.

Copyright 1975 Hazeleden Foundation

 

Tammy’s recovery links

http://www.bluidkiti.com/forums/

 

NEW!

Twisted Thinking Making Sense Out of Nonsense:

Change Happens by Changing Your Perception

by Georgia Hughes

amazon.com/author/georgiahughes

 

 

AA Photo Archives

http://www.rewritables.net/cybriety/aa_photos.htm

 

Heard at A Meeting

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Breast Cancer Site

Take a minute and click to provide free mammograms

https://thebreastcancersite.greatergood.com/clickToGive/bcs/home

 

MEN FIGHTING CANCER TOGETHER

America’s largest volunteer men’s cancer support group

and advocacy national nonprofit organization.

http://malecare.org/

 

Big Book Quotes

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/BigBookQuotes/

 

The Universe

https://www.facebook.com/scherie.dee

 

Prayables

http://prayables.org/

 

 

 

As We See It (AWSI)

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AsWeSeeIt/

 

 

Keep It Simple

Hazelden Meditations

 

 

Daily Thought

http://groups.google.com/group/TransitionsDaily

 

Speaker Recordings

http://storiesofrecovery.org/Workshops.htm

{Under Reconstruction}

 

Wisdom of the Room

http://www.theWisdomoftheRooms.com

 

 

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