Hi Pyth,
That is a fair point regarding Bitcoin Core's existing dependencies. I chose AES-GCM-256 specifically because this BIP targets Application Layer coordination, with a focus on cross-platform ubiquity (Web PWAs, Mobile, and Desktop).
For these environments, AES-GCM is a core primitive of the Web Crypto API, meaning it is implemented natively and audited by browser/OS vendors. Standardizing on ChaCha20-Poly1305 would force web and mobile developers to bundle external, unoptimized JavaScript cryptographic libraries. In the context of a browser-based or mobile coordinator, I believe relying on native, hardware-accelerated OS primitives provides a smaller and more secure attack surface than importing third-party JS dependencies.
If the protocol were strictly node-to-node (Transport Layer), I would agree on ChaCha20. But for client-to-relay coordination, the Web Crypto API support makes AES-GCM the safer choice for the average user's device in my opinion.
Happy to discuss further if you see a reason why supporting ChaCha20 is a benefit other than ecosystem alignment.
I updated the BIPs rationale section with this earlier today.
All the best,
Sean Carlin