.... that if we feel the urge to have a helmet discussion, it needs to be a new one.
A new discussion.
A new way of looking at the subject.
And I'm not in any way sure that can actually occur.
I've been bumping around the interwebs since dial-up days, and have seen only a few topics turn truly, utterly and mind-numbingly ugly on a uniformly consistent basis. Helmets is one of those.
I've never seen it end well. I've watched good folks who I knew and respected, other folks who seemed to fly in for the fight, and a whole lot of howling and sniping and cut-quoting. My personal view is that helmets is a topic where everyone starts out with the best intentions, but it devolves and becomes a harsher and more strident environment.
Which is one of the things I'd hoped to avoid in this list.
And just to say it clearly and loudly, we by and large have done so - avoided it, I mean. Thanks everyone who kept their head cool and presented facts, tried to keep a lid on a relentlessly explosive topic, or wisely took it off-list. I'm aware of how the topic got brought up, and how it specifically relates to Grant's writings and statements, and by extension how it could be related to this list.
Thanks for no name callin', and no "oh yeah, so's yer old man!" positions being taken.
I don't think any other group could have pulled it off so well. I'm just asking that we let it sit now (ok, I've actually locked the topic, so, it's a pretty strong "ask") and take a couple steps back and not pick it up again.
Because, it's an every-steepening slope with increasingly slicker sides.
As for that "new way" I mentioned above. I have no idea what it is - whether we have the ability to have the discussion without a lot of other things operating. Some of those things are well and fine, and others may be not even recognized impulses and reactiions.
The only thing I can think to use as an analogy is when you are out in a boat and suddenly the fog creeps in tight. You can see the water but as soon as you lift your vision up, landmarks are gone, perspective is skewed and it becomes a sudden, strange world. The best thing to do is first recognize that you are in the situation. Then figure out the best way to calmly and safely withdraw.
There are probably some places to discuss the topic, to make the case or prove the point. But, my suggestion is that we not do so in this group.
Thanks and thanks to all for their contributions.
- Jim / List Admin
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Jim,
First off, thanks for everything you do to maintain a really great forum. And thanks for all the many smart contributions from members. As a follow up to what Jim wrote about the helmet conversation, I'd like to offer the following suggestion.
Going back to when the forum began after Rivendell stopped running it, the forum has been of extremely high quality for I believe three reasons:
1) The moderation efforts of Jim E.
2) The intelligence of the members and applying that intelligence to the discussions.
3) The very focused original definition of the forum.
To keep things very focused, I remember the forum being defined as a place to discuss Rivendell products. I remember this definition being in contrast to the BOB list where list volume is much greater, because there, they discuss things that are "BOBish" which opens the door to many other arenas. One of our strengths has been our focus on the products that Rivendell sells.
With this in mind, I'd like to suggest that we consider that the mere event of Grant mentioning a topic does not qualify that topic as being in line with the definition of the forum. For example, his current blog shows the unique sculpture in Chicago called The Bean. His mentioning of that doesn't make it on-topic for this forum. On the other hand, if that same blog speculates on some feature of a possible upcoming Rivendell product, then that part is on-topic. Grant's mention of a helmet article would be in the category of something the he finds interesting, and many of us might as well, but is not within the scope of this forum.
Thanks for reading,
Jim W.
p.s. This suggestion will do nothing to affect any future high trail/low trail debates, because Riv sells forks! : )
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From: Bruce Herbitter
Sent: Oct 3, 2012 8:39 AM
To: rbw-owne...@googlegroups.com
Subject: Re: [RBW] Been Thinkin'....
so, changing topics, how's about a cyclofiend web page update? Seems like the last current classic update was in Feb. Then we can all civilly debate paint schemes, (Should HELMETS be painted to match your frame?) lugs vs welded, etc... :)
On Wed, Oct 3, 2012 at 10:02 AM, Lyle Bogart <lyleb...@gmail.com> wrote:
Indeed, very nicely done! It is a curious thing that this topic can be so volatile. . . and it is a wonderful thing that the discussion did remain as civil as it did.Thanks for all you do keeping the list going, Jim!Cheers!lyle
On 3 October 2012 01:26, Cyclofiend Jim <cyclo...@earthlink.net> wrote:
.... that if we feel the urge to have a helmet discussion, it needs to be a new one.
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In politics as well as helmet wars, the other side consistently has it totally wrong ;)
Wow! I go on a quickie four day tour and missed a lot of fun!
It wouldn't be a newly created box now. The box was created when the RBW forum was originally defined. The original definition of this forum was to discuss Riv parts and products and Riv-inspired riding activities. This narrow definition made it more restricted than iBOB.
I recall there being sentiment that the things outside the box had value but that people could go to other forums for those things. I always thought the reason behind the narrow definition of RBW was to keep message volume more manageable.
If I'm remembering it wrong, I apologize. No big deal. It's always fun here.
-Jim W.
Say, here's an idea... Let's start a satirical Google Group and call it "Helmet War"???? Like screaming curses into a paper bag when I'm fed up, this could be a no-holds barred forum with no rules; just enter at your own peril, and simply regard the scorch marks on the back of your head (as you flee for your life) as the price of pure entertainment ... I'm only being half-facetious. My real point is that people need a place to speak their minds and where they can (and should) laugh at themselves... If we can't do that here, honestly why are we wasting our breath having a dialogue in the first place?... This is the land of free speech, of free ideas. That's not to say we shouldn't point out to each other when we're going off-topic, being mean-spirited or just plan pig-headed... but to suggest we not speak of certain topics because they may fan a few flames or spark healthy debate is contrary to the very principle of a forum.