Hi Daniel,
I would still recommend Loxone, it’s frustrating the partner only route they have taken but I feel it’s still the best.
I have pretty much done a self build without really any prior knowledge of home automation, I choose Loxone because I could find out more information on ‘how it works’ and ‘how to’ to any other system. It has turned from a project into a hobby.
I control heating, lighting, blinds, access, security, partial music. lighting and access are the most important to me.
I have followed the three method for switches and motion sensors it allows for far easier cabling although I see the flexibility of star wiring.
1) Use primarily Loxone vs. Loxone + KNX?
Depends on your experience as my knowledge was limited at the start I stayed with Loxone dimmers and relays they just work!
2) If using primarily Loxone, is the tree interface the best approach or are others doing something else to avoid being tied to Loxone?
As noted above
2) What is the best alternative to using Loxone for lighting given both Loxone light fittings and dimmers look expensive? i.e, DMX vs DALI vs. KNX
I personally believe for smaller rooms find a good quality 24vdc spot light fitting (the Loxone ones are ok I think there are better ones out there) a reality cheap Loxone RGBW allows you control 4x small rooms when you use each channel, larger rooms and bathrooms stick with 240v spots something like the JCC v50 they work well with Loxone mains dimmers.
Other recommendations
You can save money using web relays they work well using Loxone udp commands, but react a little slow however for controlling underfloor heating valves which are not speed critical they are reliable.
https://www.kmtronic.com/UDP-LAN-Ethernet-IP-Eight-channels-Relay-Controller.html
I paid chap in the early days circa £300 to write my base programme from using my wiring diagram / drawings best £300 I spent.
Draw every room showing wiring, lights, switches etc on autocad if you can.
Wire tree in bus methodology from panel to each switch and then back to the panel helps if you have one bad connections all still work ok.
If you are building your own panel do not under estimate the size of the incoming trunking as there are more cables than you might think, I have lots of panel advise, I’m pleased with mine but it’s taken some work I’ll post a pic.
I am a Sonos fan but I should have considered more seriously the Loxone music server as it would be really helpful for things like spoken commands “someone is at the door” etc I am using a raspberry pi but can’t get it reliable but I expect my knowledge is the issue.
Think out service routes to the panel after the build is complete to get the missed cable in I installed some 2” drain pipe from the loft to the panel, also run extra cables to incoming supply zones ie electric meter, water and as ideas will come after when living in the house.