Vandami Samaniji,
I won't be able to join the meeting today. I have to go to Maryland
early morning tomorrow.
Here are my thoughts:
I agree with Rameshji's suggestion of involving everyone in the
process. When we started Gyanshala, there were several factors that
contributed to its success:
1) it was a new concept
2) It was on Friday evening when most people are relaxed as there is
no pressure of school or work next day. And also most people don't
plan any kind of work on Friday evening.
3) We allowed parents to stay back in Gyanshala - which I think was
the most contributing factor for its success. Parents formed
friendships and were eager to come and in process brought their kids
along. We used to end Gyanshala by 10 but most of the time most people
were there in parking lot until 11pm socializing and bonding. That
allowed kids to socialize as well. This also resulted in formation of
Jain Yuva Group.
4) We celebrated most festivals where again all parents and kids
participated. We did pot luck and most families brought healthy snacks
by themselves. That provided another venue for socializing for kids
and parents. I never had to ask anyone to cleanup. Parents volunteered
themselves as they considered themselves part of Gyanshala.
5) As Rameshji said we celebrated Birthdays. We gave awards for
perfect attendance.
6) Weekly Gyanshala also helped in attendance and provided continuity.
Older Kids - It's a challenge to involve older kids if they are
starting to come to Gyanshala in High School or even in Middle school.
They don't want to see any school like setting. We can try few things
to involve them - 1) we provide them certificates for volunteer and
leadership hours by having at least 1 or 2 high school kids in each
classroom. 2) We can do once a month special session for them and
include some social activity as well like bowling. 3) Another
suggestion is to ask them to create a blog on Jainism or other issues
they want to discuss and they can maintain that blog and create one
entry every week 4) Maybe we can have a Toastmasters like session for
not only them but for adults as well where we talk on Jainism and
social topics relevant to them.
Regards,
Neena.
On 9/10/12, Ramesh Parmar <
rpar...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> Vandami Namamsami -
>
> Jai Jinendra to all!
>
>
> Here are some of my thoughts based on what we used to do when our gyanshala
> was strong 65+ kids... Also see below the bridge in case someone is not
> able to attend face to face today at the Center.
>
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>
> 1. Lead any gyanshala session with a prayer led by Samaniji. This brings
> all children and teachers together and also get inspired by Samanijis.
> 2. Celebrate birthdays as they occur in the presence of Samaniji. This
> makes the child feel good as they receive blessings from Samanijis and some
> token gift
> 3. Kids look forward to snack for fun and energy. Always provide snacks to
> the kids (Vivekananda vidyapith which has run gyanshala of 350 kids for 30+
> years still provide snack and kids who are allergic do not eat).
> 4. Instill the value of sharing - by collecting canned food (pasta etc.)
> for thanksgiving and donating to local food bank
> 5. Celebrate major festivals - diwali, holi, paryushan with a project -
> art, craft, etc.
>
> 6. Engage kids to participate in art work and auction their work at
> graduation
>
> 7. Create a scholarship fund for high schoolers by writing winning essay or
> doing a charitable work
> 8. Create seminar based approach for high schoolers for sharing Jain