On 14/10/2012 9:06 PM, Ron Hunter wrote:
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> Yes, but one needs to be clear in both written and spoken communication.
> Many words that people usually say alike are actually pronounced
> differently, at least by people who take the time to do them right.
[...]
"Mary, marry, merry" are pronounced the same in most US dialects
(regional variations). Oddly enough, people who speak those dialects
often don't hear the differences as spoken in a different dialect. This
is a general rule: we usually don't hear differences we don't speak
ourselves. Hence the odd spellings that occasionally crop up when people
transcribe from audio notes.
FWIW, I taught a course on "The history, grammar and rhetoric of
English" to aspiring school teachers many years ago. The first hurdle to
cross was that the spoken language comes first. The second, that "good
grammar" as understood by most people is merely a socially approved
dialect. The third, that many of the "good English" rules were invented
by school teachers with a minimal grasp of both the history and the
grammar of English. The take-away: There are many varieties of good
English, and a skillful English speaker/writer will know which ones to
use as occasion demands.
Re: Spelling and pronunciation: English spelling is weird because
Caxton introduced printing, and therefore the need for standardised
spelling, at a time when the dialects of English were changing very
rapidly. Our spelling is actually a pretty good phonetic spelling of
late Middle English. The speech of a ca. 1500 English speaker would
sound like a foreign language today, but that of a ca. 1600 English
speaker would merely sound like another odd-ball dialect.
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Best,
Wolf K.