For what it's worth, all I have to share is one lurker's opinion.
Which goes a bit like this:
Patrick Oden said in the previous post, "There's a whole lot going on
in SoCal, but so far a lot of the practical activities have been
diffuse."
I think the medium here (online communication) has been worn out, not
the conversation. I feel about twitter-ed and facebook-ed to death.
Anyone else? Can I get an "Amen"?
My wife and I have visited (a couple of times now) a gathering of
folks who are trying to put something together. It's inconvenient
(downtown, while we're in the SFV), and a bit "broke-down" in a very
human and appealing way. And after not worshiping or even 'seeking' in
the company of others for a year+, it was so invigorating and
refreshing just to be with people, who, however imperfectly, were
craning upward from the nest.
I have lived in LA for 4 years, and I have witnessed and been pummeled
by the ISOLATION parching this city, zapping my energy and that of my
handful of friends who long for God's presence. I think that we rely
far too much on electronic forms to do our communicating for us, and
it adds to the isolation we feel, rather than diminishing it.
Think of it this way: Have you ever REALLY botched an attempt to
diffuse a tense, loaded issue via email? Your intentions were good,
and you thought you were showing all due subtlety, but everything you
said was totally misconstrued?
I have come to realize that online communication is a "supplemental
form" only. You wouldn't send your birth certificate in the mail with
a $0.42 stamp on it, leaving it in your unsecure mailbox to be picked
up, would you? You'd FedEx it with all kinds of insurance, placing it
directly in the hands of the representative, personally, right?
I heard this piece on NPR a few weeks back about a guy who works for
some San Jose computer company (Cisco?). Anyway, he got so bombarded
and so overwhelmed by email (1950 unread or so) that he declared Email
Bankruptcy. He sent a mass email to his whole list, with apologies,
and then wiped his account clean. Deleted EVERY SINGLE EMAIL. Read,
unread, EVERYTHING.
Isn't there a little part of you that finds the idea of that sort of
attractive?
Email (and listserves, by extension), should be used far more
sparingly than we do (me first).
Is that where we are now as an online community? Are those other
forums that are discussing 4-Wheel-Drive Parts-Swapping and the Art of
Crochet more robust than we are because the subject matter is MORE
ENGAGING than what we have gathered here to discuss?
I have more questions than answers here, but I suspect that we have
been reduced to silence because we crave a human, ACTUAL, forum for
these thoughts and feelings. (Back to Patrick's comment about
"practical activities").
Do we need to start fresh here? One path forward might look something
like this:
> We declare listserve bankruptcy.
> We call out for a Listserve Roll-call, inviting hollers-back with regions represented (e.g., Scott from North Hollywood.)
> Someone from each of those areas most heavily represented (SFV, Westside, Southbay, PASADENA, anyone?) volunteers a time and a place for a Pub Night. Choose a local watering hole and a night of the week to go have a pint and say "Hello." No program. No bible study. No book group. All of that MIGHT come later, as an outgrowth of the prefs and needs of each group.
We need an analog to the virtual community we are trying to create
here out of nothing (or out of 'not much', rather).
Any thoughts?
Warmly,
Scott
> On Fri, Sep 26, 2008 at 1:35 AM, Andrew Seely <
andrewse...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
> > Anybody have anything to contribute?
>
> >
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