For more information on the care of the intact penis, go to
http://www.cirp.org/library/normal/
hope this helps,
Cheryl, mom to Jason and Joey
No, you leave him alone until you see him pulling it back himself in the bath.
He will probably do that at some time in the next year or two. Before he does
that he will spend some time stretching the foreskin *out* which is one of the
factors that causes it to begin to separate gently and without any trauma. It
looks very funny when they do this, by the way! You would think they would hurt
themselves, but they don't.
My son is 20 months old and his foreskin definitely doesn't retract much yet. I
have started seeing it open up some at the end, though.
Anyway, after you see him pull it back himself, then you start teaching him to
wash under it. Obviously this is one of those skills, like wiping one's bottom,
that takes years, not to learn, but to learn to remember to do without being
told :)
--Helen