Obviously all dogs squabble from time to time - showing teeth, growling and
standing up to each other. The thing that worries me slightly is that my
friend seems to be underestimating the risk of her dog being seriously
injured by the Staffy. The Staffy seems, even during brief visits, to assert
its dominance over the older female dog and the female dog for the most part
doesn't really seem to object (does look afraid at times though).
Sometimes the Staffy will go too far - pestering her to play when she wants
to sleep, trying to steal food from her mouth... Obviously that's too much
even if she does accept his dominance. On a couple of occasions she's
snapped at him - not meaning to make contact just getting the message
across - "fuck off you annoying little shit". He always seems to get the
message and doesn't make a deal of it at all - doesn't look scared nor does
he submit just turns his head away and walks off as if to say "bloody hell,
I was only trying to be friendly".
The thing that worries me is that he obviously has a lot of potential to
cause serious physical damage to the older dog. Or does he? If he hasn't
done anything by now - after being snapped at - does that mean that he's
*unlikely* to ever attack? In predicting his aggressive potential would his
abusive past be relevant (he gets visibly scared when anyone uses a swear
word for example)?
Are male bull breeds - specifically Staffys - more aggressive to (younger
and bigger) male dogs rather than older females?
I'm trying to persuade the owner of the dog to grasp the aggressive
potential of this breed - that they aren't just charming, human friendly
pets.
The law in the UK regarding bull breeds is pretty vague - a Staffy could
easily be mistaken as an APBT and destroyed because an ill-informed owner
puts the dog in a risky situation. It seems sad that dogs like both of these
are being put at risk by ill informed owners. Or am I the one who is ill
informed?
Gareth.
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All you need to get through life is the right combination of ignorance and
arrogance.
-Mark Twain
"Gareth Davies" <dga...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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The Staffy You Speak of generally will respect that the Other dog is Old and
In Particular That Its a Female...but you can never be Certain !!!
So far your description sounds a lot like a male Staff being just that - a
typical macho dickhead trying to impress a female and convincing her he's
God gift to female dogs. Most are like that, much more pushy even than
average male dogs. He probably has no direct intention of actually hurting
her, and even dominance is not often an issue, as that is only really
directly the case between same gender dogs. She is older, and probably gets
sufficient respect. Also (here's your quote:
"He always seems to get the message and doesn't make a deal of it at all -
doesn't look scared nor does he submit just turns his head away and walks
off as if to say bloody hell, I was only trying to be friendly". This is
EXACTLY what he thinks! They're just so much more pushy and physical, that
it looks like trouble's about to start. It most probably is not. But there
is one big "BUT"...
If the bitch tells him off in too harsh a fashion, he might take it the
wrong way. I've seen this happen more than once, and once a male feels
challenged that way, he'll forget he's dealing with a bitch that "has a
headache" and respond, the Pitbull way. I'm not saying the dog in this case
will, but he might... and then you have a serious problem.
So how to go about it, if you ask me?
Watch them always. If you have an eye for dog posturing, you'll see it
coming, if it ever does (and it might never). I've owned 2 male Staffs, and
they could not be trusted around bitches because they'd become belligerent
when told off (they'd tolerate it from "their" bitches though).
It comes back to the old truth: Never trust them not to fight. But if you
take a bit of care, you don't need to deny them the pleasure of each others
company. They might very well grow old together without anything ever
happening.
HTH,
Dany
Gareth.