A woman who appeared to be in her late 70s or early 80s gave me an approving
once-over and pronounced my outfit "really very cute" in a matter-of-fact
way. She looked pretty spiffy herself, with a cute little tam (complete
with pom-pom), so I figured she knew what she was talking about. I admit
that it really cheered me up.
Bet you want to know what I was wearing, huh? Okay: a pale pinky-lavendery
chenille v-neck sweater, black a-line above-the-knee skirt, black knee-high
boots (sort of chunky, almost goth-like) and the denim jacket that I
embellished with embroidery and appliqued ribbons and decorative buttons.
And two "strands" of pink pearls that are separated by free-form gold
"twigs" (the pearls are about the same color as the sweater I was wearing).
Anyway, that brief encounter really brightened my day. I try to give
compliments like that, too, but I probably don't do it as often as I should.
It can make such a difference in someone's day.
cofarb
How nice!! Compliments are always appreciated!
> Anyway, that brief encounter really brightened my day. I try to give
> compliments like that, too, but I probably don't do it as often as I should.
> It can make such a difference in someone's day.
Let's make it a group pledge!! Even if you HATE the outfit.......
For the past five years I have tutored at the high school. One of the
teachers has complimented me all the time about my outfits and weight
loss. Well, this year she has begun to lose weight, and I am definitely
returning the compliments.
cofarb
<progr...@aol.com> wrote in message
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> I made a little page with one of my photos on it in case my story got
> anyone curious
>
> http://hometown.aol.com/programbo5/index.html
>
Looking at the picture (which I know is not as detailed as real life) I
find it very hard to believe anyone would think you were not a woman. Not
doubting your experience, obviously, just commenting that I certainly can't
tell. Also, the outfit in the picture is incredibly classy and you look
fabulous!
Regards,
Mike
That is a very attractive photo! You look like a LADY--more than some
LADIES do!
I support you in your endeavours, Program. BTW, this compliment comes
from a senior citizen--honest!
I agree. (And I wonder how many people thought you were simply not in the
Halloween spirit because you were "just" a lady in her regular garb.)
cofarb
Unfortunately, those people will always be around, but a nice big smile often
throws them off, lol. And I have found that regular restaurants are generally
ok with it as long as you dress appropriately and it looks like you certainly
do that. A nice picture by the way.