Go spike, do it now.
spike wrote:
Panther
Liz Bateman <sim...@pacbell.net> wrote in message
news:3963D6D8...@pacbell.net...
Please please please don't type stuff like this. I have noticed that you
are upset with spike, but please... this is not the way to handle your
anger. I don't condone egging anyone to commit su*cide. I cringed
inside when I read this. Please if you need to talk, to vent, you do
have a support system. That is what a support system is for. Doing this
here in the NG, can only serve to reinforce the negativity and escalate
the whole flame war thing. You also make yourself more of a target this
way. What spike has said about rosee and her daughter upset me too... but
I also see that spike is feeling defensive over being publicly doubted as
to the truth of his trial. Really no one's personal life is anyone's
business in this NG. Whether it is true or not... it is the reality of
the person living that life. Not mine, not yours, not anyone else's.
Why why why are we attacking each other's lives, over and over again?
What is gained by doing this? Some relief from pain? I think not...
I am so sad to see so much pain here... to see... the endless cycle of
lashing out, lashing back. Makes me want to crawl into a dark space and
cry.
Liz please take some time for yourself and take a deep cleansing
breath... no one here is really an enemy. Just a bunch of people who
have been abused... much "reaction" going on here... and so little
"action".
With love,
Bobbi
>spike...do us all a favor, why don't you? Go in the bathroom, grab a
>bottle of whatever meds you stopped taking, take them all at once and
>swallow a couple of bottles of vodka afterward?
>
>Go spike, do it now.
>
>spike wrote:
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From:
http://www.faqs.org/faqs/suicide/info/
12. How does suicide affect friends and family members?
Suicide is often extremely traumatic for the friends and family
members that remain (the survivors), even though people that attempt
suicide often think that no-one cares about them. In addition to
the feelings of grief normally associated with a person's death,
there may be guilt, anger, resentment, remorse, confusion and great
distress over unresolved issues. The stigma surrounding suicide can
make it extremely difficult for survivors to deal with their grief
and can cause them also to feel terribly isolated.
Survivors often find that people relate differently to them after
the suicide, and may be very reluctant to talk about what has
happened for fear of condemnation. They often feel like a failure
because someone they cared so much about has chosen to suicide,
and may also be fearful of forming any new relationships because of
the intense pain they have experienced through the relationship with
the person who has completed suicide.
People who have experienced the suicide of someone they cared deeply
about can benefit from "survivor groups", where they can relate to
people who have been through a similar experience, and know they
will be accepted without being judged or condemned. Most
counselling services should be able to refer people to groups in
their local area. Survivor groups, counselling and other
appropriate help can be of tremendous assistance in easing the
intense burden of unresolved feelings that suicide survivors often
carry.
The suicide-survivors mailing list provides such a group via
electronic mail. See the resource list companion posting mentioned
at the top of this posting for more information.
Copyright 1994, 1995, 1996 by Graham Stoney
<gre...@research.canon.com.au>.
This article may be freely redistributed for personal use or via
Usenet News provided that this copyright message remains intact.
Any other form of commercial distribution requires explicit
permission from the author.
Dorothy
There is no sound, no cry in all the world
that can be heard unless someone listens ..
source unknown
Bobbi Perrin wrote:
And no Spike I am not new here. I have been here for about 5 years. I don't
post often... or at best I post infrequently.
Peace, hope, wisdom,
Bobbi (aka Seeker)
do you care enough to help the new ppl?
so you are not being very smart, lix has stated her uses ppl's triggers against
them, please be more care in this place you care about so much.
joel washington, brian clark, martin kurse, evy my sister in law, all my music
heros, so we can hide from that facts and wait for the next lix or try and stop it.
What do you like best the sit and wait?
my concern is a person like you with triggers gets told to off yourself, then is
triggered by lix and told again and you do it.
spike
Spike I have held my tongue countless times when you have gone off on numerous
people. I am sorry I didn't/don't measure up to your high standards of AAR posting
etiquette! I abase my self and hide my slovenly face in awe of your superior caring,
kind, gentle ways you treat people. I have so much to learn, yet I am far to ignorant
of what is right and proper. It would take far too much from you to have to lower
yourself to my dispicable level merely for the purpose to educate me properly.
I HATE THIS FUCKING NG!!!! I FUCKING HATE THIS NG!!!!
SHOVE THIS FUCKING PLACE!!!!
Bobbi