My thoughts are half-baked at this point, but I hoped if I through out
a thin thread of thought, other thoughts would crystalize around it...
in this e-list environment which is saturated w. brainpower.
I also see that there's an opportunity to learn to be a "team player"
from doing quests in online groups. It's kind of like a sport that is
performed sitting down. <g>
My kid knows so much more about how to play this game than I do. He
ends up being my mentor, and that's pretty cool.
Betsy
Kirby does large-group things there. I don't understand it, but I
try not to interrupt them. Sometimes he's a crucial member or a team
leader and really can't leave to talk or do anything because he'll
mess up several people's game.
Sandra
This is definitely one of my favorite things about the game! To
see/hear/experience Hayden's expertise of his realm & character, AH it warms my
heart SO much more than a school play ever could!! This is *his* and he's happy
to share, not only with me, but with the countless strangers he encounters and
saves/helps/heals/donates to on a daily basis.
~diana :^D
(tangent)
Yeah, my main character is a paladin, so when I walk past people I often
cast a Blessing on them and make them briefly stronger or smarter or
whatever. It's a virtual form of mitzvah. It helps them play better in
the game, so I get the happy feeling of being helpful.
Circling back to the topic...
This list has been a blessing in MY life, helping me be stronger in my
convictions and smarter about my choices as well as more flexible in
dealing with conflict (and even sweeter in dealing with my role as a
food and beverage purveyor for my family).
I'm not high enough level in the game to have and know the names of all
of the blessings, but this list could be said to give a "blessing of
enlightenment" or a "blessing of compassion" (for parents). For our
kids, we could name it a "blessing of freedom" or "self-determination".
(That fits w. the Kwanza season, no?)
Thanks for sharing your blessings of enlightenment and freedom with me!
Betsy
**This is *his* and he's happy
to share, not only with me, but with the countless strangers he
encounters and
saves/helps/heals/donates to on a daily basis. **
(tangent)
Yeah, my main character is a paladin, so when I walk past people I often
cast a Blessing on them and make them briefly stronger or smarter or
whatever. It's a virtual form of mitzvah. It helps them play better in
the game, so I get the happy feeling of being helpful.
Ditto for me.
We also play. 4 out of 5 of us in our households play quite
regularily. If I wasn't on this list I doubt we would have ever found
this joy. (Or a lot of other joys too!)
We've only had good things coming from that game too. I've been
constantly amazed at all the different aspects of the game and also the
different ways a person can play and enjoy the game.
I've written about it a couple of times in my blog and my daughter went
into quite a bit of detail in her blog. She does role-playing and also
does a ton of writing in a role-playing forum that is based on WoW.
That's really sweet.
I haven't played WoW, but last night some of us and our snowbound
houseguests were playing Quiddler (the word-cousin of Five Crowns)
and one of the teens said she really needed some letter, and I slid a
card over to trade her for it. She was so surprised and grateful
she just gushed. I just can't see that purpose of games being to
enable one person to crush the others in a stunning victory. I have
way more interest in friendly opportunities for conversation. And
so it's cool that I see my kids' interests in games being teamwork
stuff (even if it does involve "beating" another team) and being true
to their word to meet their friends in the game at a certain time,
and working on cool characters that look good and have good equipment.
Sandra
I see this a lot. Just the other night Abbi thought she'd be going to
bed earlier than she had been, she thought she would since she didn't
have much going on. But the next morning, Tim (my husband) was up
really early and was surprised to see her still up. She said she
really needed to stay up, she had promised a friend that she would help
her with a quest. It was a very cool quest. One where after you do
these 3 difficult tasks, you get to change into an underwater form, (a
big seal looking creature). Then you get to swim underwater without
taking breath and really fast!
She has met a lot of people online, in game. One of her best friends
right now is a homeschooled girl she met through the game. They talk
practically every day and the girl is very interested in unschooling
now. :)
Kelli~
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Please let me know if you do this, we'd be up for that!
I know we'll be creating new ones on both sides, the Draenei look
really cool! :)
Here, for others who are wondering what we're talking about ;)
http://www.worldofwarcraft.com/burningcrusade/
Kelli~
~diana :)
I'm sure it depends on what type of connection you have but ours has
had 4 going at once :)
***But anyhow how would you feel about someone who has NO CLUE whats
going on and wants to play? ****
If you want to play give it a try! Seriously, I didn't have a clue
about what was going on and I'm now level 56 :D. You'll figure it out
and your husband and kids will help you. That has been a huge joy,
like someone else said, my son, daughter being the mentor for me. Alec
(ds13) helps me a ton, not only helping me to decide on what's the
right thing to do but sometimes will score some really awesome armor
and weapons for me! :D
Kelli~
> . You'll figure it out
> and your husband and kids will help you. That has been a huge joy,
> like someone else said, my son, daughter being the mentor for me.
> Alec
> (ds13) helps me a ton, not only helping me to decide on what's the
> right thing to do but sometimes will score some really awesome armor
> and weapons for me!
Console video games have been like this for us--my 5-year-old got to
have the pleasure of introducing me to a game he and his dad had been
playing. He explained the controls to me, helped me choose a
spaceship (telling me the pros and cons of the various models), and,
as I was playing, gave me tips like, "When you go around that corner,
there's going to be a guy shooting at you, so be ready." Even in an
unschooling house, there aren't that many areas where a kid that
young gets to know more than his mom, be better at something than his
mom, and help his mom learn to do it. We both loved it.
Su
Wouldn't your husband and son share copious amounts of clues with you?
Sandra
Aren't you likely to be on a whole 'nother server in the U.K.?
Aren't people on whole 'nother servers even in north America?
I was pretty stressed when I started out playing World of Warcraft. I
was walking into walls, walking into trees, getting lost, missing my
targetted creature. And I took it too seriously and didn't handle the
stress of "ack, I'm gonna die!" very well. (I want any new players to
understand that they aren't the only person struggling and feeling
foolish.) (I don't feel that way now -- it passes.)
I noticed a difference between me and my unschooled child (who started
playing many months before I did). He has figured out tons of things
that are not in the small manual that came with the game. He seems to
do lots of experiential learning. I, sadly, seem to still reflect the
schooled pattern. I heard myself several times (when stressing out)
saying to my helping husband or kid --"You didn't TELL me that!" So it
seems like I'm (sometimes) still passively waiting for a teacher to pour
knowledge into me. (And, apparently I'm kind of cranky.)
Betsy
I agree that failure is a very rapid path to learning. But in some
corporations failure is punished. This seems to make it hard for an
organization to learn. (But the people in the organization often learn
to be very very cautious.)
Betsy