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Tehillah Lily Sikazwe

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Dec 19, 2012, 6:45:44 AM12/19/12
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For a number of ardent followers of Zambian politics and it's players, the concealed life of one Mutinta Hakainde is one that keeps people thinking about the role that the potential first lady plays in the life of her dear husband, HH as fondly referred to by supporters.
Whereas the absence of Mr. Hichilema's wife from the public view has in some quarters been explained as resulting from her personality, the Zambian Intelligence News can exclusively reveal that her  conduct is the conduct of every mason wife as per practiced mason doctrine with respect to marriage and related social facets.
 
It is critical to note the prefix to mason 'free'. That's because free is exactly what a freemason is. Free from his wife and family for much of the time. Meetings are all important. Of course they are! Especially the Friday meeting, all the others (Monday through Thursday) are just incidental, but oftentimes attended nonetheless. The supremacy of the mason vow overtakes the importance of the marital vow and as a consequence of the influence of mason doctrine in relation to marriage, masons are principally not expected to appear very close to their wives in the public view and they may only appear once in a while. The mason doctrine on marriage does expressly permit once in a while appearances with one's wife just as a way of guaranteeing societal acceptance. The foregoing has apparently been one of the clear cut experiences of Mutinta Hichilema after having been married to a husband who turned mason in 1999. Other than her initial appearance at Mulungushi International Conference Centre when her husband announced her candidature for the UPND presidency back in 2006, Mutinta has made very erratic public appearances pursuant to trite mason doctrine.
The freemason's oath is sacrosanct, nothing is allowed to come between a freemason and his oath. He signs his life away when he signs on the dotted line. This oath is taken much more seriously than his marriage vows. As a matter of fact, during initiation, new convert masons are instructed to remove their wedding rings as a way of ascribing sanctity to the mason vows which are considered superior to marriage vows and they never put their rings back again. A check on Hakainde's left hand will actually confirm his strict obedience of this part of mason doctrine. Yes, he does not have a wedding ring and this is a requirement that comes after initiation to the cult. This is also part of Mutinta's experience after 11 years with a mason husband. Tied to the foregoing, the Zambain Intelligence News has revealed that for a mason like Hakainde, when it comes to marriage, only the Masonic oath is to be honored over all else. This actually leads to a lesson of unshakeable loyalty in the mason realm and one would want to think that if marriage vows were taken as seriously, the divorce rate would be practically non-existent.  Freemasons are faithful to their fellow freemasons; faithful to their lodge; faithful to their inane rules and regulations and it is settled doctrine that the place of a wife in the life of a freemason should not be seen to become more prominent than the commitment to the mason vow which among others requires the mason husband to be caring yet stay away from the wife.  If a freemason placed his lodge in disrepute he would soon be expelled. But wives are there as fodder or food in simple language. Therefore for a freemason like the UPND leader, a wife is considered or likened to the food that is prepared at home and to be found at home and this is part of the mason doctrine that has made Mutinta Hichilema the kind of wife that she is today.
The source also added that Mutinta Hichilema like many other freemason wives has lived to appreciate life without receiving the normal attention that other women get from their husbands, what is constant for her however is that constant demand for a freshly laundered white shirt for the Lodge meetings (official congregational services). Freemason wives hardly see their husbands. The wife of the UPND leader usually has more time with her husband during what is called a recess in the mason calendar which is approximately two months in a given year and this is when freemasons dig into their wives free time and they think this two months makes up for all the months of neglect. This is the experience of Mutinta Hichilema.
 
Resilience and self-esteem are kissing cousins. If you're low on one, cultivate the other until inner balance is restored.

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