It's that time of Summer... Does your child ignore you?

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Shane B. Kulman MS SpEd

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Aug 21, 2015, 11:02:26 AM8/21/15
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After the middle of Summer and a "Get your child to listen TIP!"
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Does your child IGNORE YOU? 

It's past the middle of the Summer! Are you settling in to your Summer routine or are you focused only on the future and Fall?

One of the best feedback comments I have been getting from the Purposeful Parenting Class is; the simplicity of parenting with easy do-able tools to use ASAP! 

One of my favorite tools to share today is for when you want your child to listen the first time you speak... (any age and works for spouses too)
  • Check yourself: Are you calm, do you have a clear request for your child. KEEP IT SIMPLE
  • Go to your child, look at them in the eyes and speak. After they hear you give them at least 5 seconds to process what you said
  • Observe
This may seem annoying or tedious, but speaking to a child across the room with a tone of voice that is not loving, doesn't work. This leads to no results and a child that is disconnected. 

This is a practice to do MOST days, at least once, it will feel really good to connect in this way - for you and for your child.

I would love to know feedback when you try this! EMAIL ME HERE WITH A SHORT COMMENT... 


  
 
I'm also excited to announce my presence on PERISCOPE!
It's free video chatting on your smartphone FREE!!!! I will be offering small and short tips for you to use ASAP with your children. Plus you can ask me questions on the spot for an immediate answer! JOIN ME ON PERISCOPE! 
Periscope Name: ShaneBKulman
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Testimonials: “I just signed up to continue working with Shane.  I was skeptical, but Shane spoke with such sure-ness - that I got my family involved, I swear I already see the difference! My child still has tantrums, but they are less destructive, fewer and don't last as long. I now have strategies and ways to deal with my children, that I would never think would work. BUT THEY DO!  Shane is the perfect combo, coach and educator. Don’t question it. Get involved. Shane is a gift to any family that wants a better and more peaceful family life.”
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“My son never use to get involved in group games, I would watch him want to play, but always keep himself busy. My husband is into sports, and I know this made his relationship with my son hard.  When my husband and I would watch Shane play with my son, it was unbelievable, I never saw him shine so much. It’s like he now has permission to speak his mind. Sometimes he plays sports games, but now when he doesn’t, he’ll answer why he doesn’t want to play.  Shane is priceless. Thank you,”
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