Do you fear your child's behavior? Do you find yourself re-directing everyone except your child? It's ok, answering these questions are anonymous.
If you are courageous enough to answer "yes," keep reading. I have witnessed many outbursts, meltdowns and tantrums. Not just from children, but from adults including myself. Why do we avoid these moments and dread them?
Here are several reasons: - These behaviors can be scary
- Someone could get hurt
- Items get broken and destroyed
- There is a big clean up after
- They can be overwhelming
- Unknown actions must then be taken
- Other _(add your own)______________
If you are still reading, ask yourself this:
What have you made it mean about you that these behaviors exist in your home?
Here is why these "out of control" behaviors are GOOD!- They are a form of communication
- We can learn about ourselves and children by experiencing and observing this behavior.
I found acronyms for FEAR. Do any resonate?
(Thank you to www.wordcrow.com)- FEAR: Face Everything and Recover
- FEAR: Failure Expected And Received
- FEAR: False Emotions Appearing Real
- FEAR: False Evidence Appearing Real
- FEAR: False Evidence Appears Real
- FEAR: False Expectations Appearing Real
- FEAR: Feel, Elevator, Aileron, Rudder
- FEAR: Feeling Everything's Awful Real
- FEAR: Feelings Every Alcoholic Rejects
- FEAR: Feelings Expressed Allows Relief
- FEAR: Fighting Ego Against Reality
- FEAR: First Encounter Assault Recon
- FEAR: Forever Escaping And Retreating
- FEAR: Forget Everything and Run
- FEAR: Forgetting Everything's All Right
- FEAR: Frantic Effort to Appear Real
- FEAR: Frantic Efforts to Appear Recovered
- FEAR: Frustration, Ego, Anxiety, Resentment
- FEAR: F*ck Everything and Run
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