First, the title has nothing at all to do with the question.
Secondly, you most be using an old version of YALMIP since the dimacs no longer are returned by default (since they never are used or understood)
Third: BMIBNB. No idea why anyone would suggest that. It is a solver for global nonconvex optimization
Fourth. You should look at the field info in the output. Most likely it says memory issues. Or turn on the debug flag through sdpsettings. Problem code 9 means "Unknown problem in solver" (see yalmiperror)
However, your main question regarding proving co-positivity using semidefinite programming. Since I don't know what f(x) is, or what the dimension of x is compared to the size of M, I'll answer an even easier question
How can I efficiently prove co-positivity of the constant matrix M by decomposing it as N+P where N is non-negative and P is positive semidefinite?
Short answer: You cannot. This class of semidefinite problems is known to scale poorly.
Long answer. The problem can be formulated in various ways. The most obvious would be
M == N + P
Nij >= 0 i<=j
P psd
This is, when interpreted as a representation of standard primal form, a problem with n(n+1)/2 equalities, one SDP constraint of size n, and n(n+1)/2 LP cones. Very bad, since a quadratic number of equalities, corresponding to a quadratic number of dual variables, means the line searches etc will have n^6 complexity (solving for the Hessian which is of size n^2 etc). Horrible.
So can we do better. Not really. An obvious step is to eliminate the cone representation P, and simply write it as
M-N psd
Nij >= 0 i<=j
This can be interpreted as a model in standard dual form if we assume N is parameterized by its elements, i.e, these are the variables in the dual..Hence, it has n(n+1)/2 variables in the dual, one SDP constraint of size nxn and n(n+1)/2 LP constraints. Yep, this is exactly the same complexity as the representation as above. In other words, the co-positive formulation has as bad complexity despite how you try to model it (in contrast to e.g. maxcut which is very efficient when looked upon as a problem in standard primal form, but horribly bad when mistakingly modeled from a dual point of view with explicit parameterization of a big matrix.
To conclude, 144x144 is simply not that small for these models. To solve problems involving the intersection of the SDP cone and the non-negative orthant, you need a dedicated solution strategy. Standard SDP solvers do not scale gracefully.