I strongly suspect you've misunderstood something and try to solve the wrong problems
As stated now, there are several practical problems. You have a strict inequality: That can not be used practice, you have to change it to a non-strict (using a margin of some sort to keep strict feasibility and avoid the trivial solution (X,Y,t)=0)
Non-singularity is extremely hard to do in practice. Generically, the solution from a numerical solver is non-singular, and if it is not, you can perturb it, and the problem will still will be feasible within any reasonable tolerance. Actually stating a non-singularity constraint is very hard (very non-convex set). The product t*X also introduces non-convexity, although it can be dealt with using bisection etc
You say AX+DY is Hermitian, and then you ask what happens if X is Hermitian. That question is strange. If AX+DY is Hermitian, then X has to be Hermitian, otherwise AX+DY >= t*X doesn't make sense (if this is to be interpreted in the semidefinite cone)
As I said, I think you are trying to solve the wrong problem. Where did this problem arise?