The first is something outside of YALMIPs control. It simply looks like they (scip or ipopt) have an internal memory bug of some kind
The second message sounds like you have a badly scaled problem. Solvers typically do some initial presolve and scaling, solve the problem and then go back to the otriginal problem. In your case, the solution that looked good enough in the presolved and scaled model, turns out to be less so when going back to original form. Happens in ill-conditioned and badly scaled models.
For the last, impossible to say, but code 9 means the solver returned an diagnostic code YALMP doesn't recognize. Impossible to answer without more details and code