lazy coding in an almost never used operator I guess
much better to learn how to derive the socp model from the epigraph model (y+0.1)^2 <= t*(x+y), t>=0, x+y>=0, or just write a simple epigraph model and yalmip will derive the socp, here you could do (y+0.1)^2 <= t*z, t>=0,z>=0, z==x+y and yalmip will detect a simple socp-representable model. the variable z is introduced to make the detection possible
if you absolutely want to use it, you will have to introduce a new variable q to replace y+0.1