If you want to work with a second upper-bounding variable, you don't have to (cannot) have equality, but it is sufficient with Q-KRK^T >= S. You middle line does not make sense (it is a non-convex constraint if R is PSD, so it can never be transfered to an LMI, which shows up in the fact that the resulting LMI is nonsensical as -R^-1 never can be positive PSD.)
However, you can just as well apply schur on A-BC^-1B'-DE^-1D^T>=0 to arrive at [A B' D'; B C 0;D 0 E]>=0