The following SQL query would get you closer to your expectations:
DECLARE @EncryptedOrderID int = 12345 /* place your order ID here */
SELECT
O.EncryptedOrderId AS 'uStore Friendly Order ID'
, OP.OrderProductID AS 'uStore Item ID'
, OP.TotalQuantity
, J.jobID AS 'uProduce Job ID'
, J.jobParams 'uProduce Job XML Params'
FROM [uStore].[dbo].[OrderProduct] OP
INNER JOIN [XMPDB2].[XMPie].[TBL_JOB] J ON J.jobID = OP.UProduceHandlingJobID
INNER JOIN [uStore].[dbo].[Orders] O ON O.OrderID = OP.OrderID
WHERE O.EncryptedOrderId = @EncryptedOrderID
In the "uProduce Job XML Params", the CUSTOMIZATIONS element would give you an idea of the values from the uStore Customization Wizard, whereas the RECIPIENT_INFO_LIST element refers to the Recipient List Wizard, if any.