However, the principle is that you have to be able to integrate
tensors over the 2-sphere [see e.g. Thorne 1980, specifically for your
problem Eqs. (4.10a-b) and (4.11a-b)]. However, in xTensor,
calculations are always local. When you write something like T[-a,-b]
in xTensor, you are working at only a single manifold point.
Integrating of course requires being able to combine tensor quantities
from different points in the manifold.
Even though xTensor is not designed to do this, if you have coordinate
component expressions in some basis, and a way to compare tensors at
different points (a unique prescription for a bivector of transport;
e.g. in a flat spacetime, simply using rectangular coordinates), you
can use xCoba and then perform the integrations as regular
integrations in Mathematica.
Alternatively, if you are working on a flat spacetime, you can
implement Thorne's Eq. (2.3b) to do the integrations in terms of
tensors, rather than component values. I'm not sure that all of the
tensorial expressions you have can actually be written like that, so
it might not be useful. It's actually a bit of work to implement this
-- but if it would be helpful, I can provide some of the code I've
written that does just this (for post-Newtonian calculations).
Good luck,
Leo