Question/reassurance?

[paul]

Dear All

I have become increasingly anxious whether or not I am (very) kindly
tolerated on the Within the Wings site, or whether it is really more
for folk who have done the various workshops (which I find difficult
to attend in terms of time, distance and finance) ... I just felt in
need to check this out in case I was somehow 'getting it wrong', in
which case, no problem, I will merely fade out ... perhaps it could be
my vulnerability showing through ...

Love & Light

Paul

[daezee]

Hi Paul

I can only speak for myself, so hear goes...

I feel like the way you put things across (sometime) goes over my
head however that's not something you should concern yourself with as
it helps me expand my thinking, being and openess. I do not tolerate
you, I love you for all that you are and the wonderful growth you are
going through (and the growth it enables me)

Have a lovely day (please don't fade out)

Much Love
Claudia xxx

[katie]

Hi Paul,

Hope you've had a lovely day.

I don't believe that anyone needs to attend a workshop or course to be
worthy of love, friendship and support x
Its one of the reasons we all came together. You are perfect just as
you are, as is everyone else.

Do you know what has triggered these emotions? It sounds like this is
a wonderful opportunity for you to heal and grow, and to stand in your
own power.
We are all worthy of love, and when we first love and accept
ourselves, it free us from these type's of hurtful emotions. Maybe
going to your first memory of feeling this way, perhaps cuddling and
reassuring your inner child as he may be in need of more of your
love.

Showing vulnerability is often a wonderful sign of strength, it can
let down the barriers we need to allow deep or deeper healing to
occur. Do you remember when we use to chat and 'vulnerability is my
strength' popped up a few times. Theirs so much truth a lot in this,
as once we heal and release the fear of not being accepted, our love
expands and naturally protects us as love is stronger than fear x
You definitely deserve unconditional love. xx

With Love
Katie x x

I've copied out today's channelled message from Dyan's site
voiceoftheangels.com


''April 15 2008
There are many things that can stand in the way of forward progress.
One of the biggest of these is the ego's need for validation and
recognition. Examine why you need this outside validation. Examine
exactly what you have done lately to stand in your own way. What
underlies this need of validation is the "not good enough" energy. The
"not good enough" energy resides in the second chakra. Who told you
you weren't good enough, smart enough, valuable enough, good looking
enough, talented enough? These are someone else's perceptions and
judgments that you have taken on as your own. When we have this type
of energy block it inhibits the "birthing" process. How can you
gestate anything if the area designated for that is filled already
with self doubt, self loathing, entitlement, and regrets? Expel these
things and you will find that you now have room for the seeds of
something new to grow and blossom. It's Spring so it's a good time to
plant. But you cannot plant anything and nothing can grow to fruition
if you haven't done the work necessary to prepare the field, or aren't
willing to do the work necessary to cultivate and tend to the field.
Dreams can become reality if you're willing to get out of the way of
the heavy equipment.

Many blessings to you,
Dyan''

[Deborah]

Hi Paul,
I read your concern this morning and straight away felt I had to tell
you, I agree with Claudia, but your a much loved person and helpful in
guididng others when ever we get stuck. We're a "family", that's how
we should always stay. I admit I don't always come on the group as uni
gets in the way, but whenever I get stuck or need guidance, I always
know where the "family" is to turn too. I thank you for being there
with your love and care and I thank the others too, for without you
all, I'd certainly be lost.

By the way, Rachel? I'd love a reading too, I think I read your piece
right.

By the way folks, my email has changed, It's now
deborah...@o2.co.uk when we redid the email address, the chap
misheard me and left off the "s" which is a pain.

Keep well every one,

love to all Deborah xxx

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[rachel]

i do know what you mean but i think if you allow yourself to feel
secure in your self worth you may find you are not toleratyed at all
but a very welcome and beneficial member of the group. doing the
workshops is fun and gives the ones who have done them something in
common but we have our other interests as well. and it is always good
to hear about other peoples experiences and thoughts.

this is ment to be a community for like minded/souled individuals
sharing our thoughts and experiences. it doesnt matter if you have
been to the same things as anyone else or not. what would be the point
anyway...it would be like networking or something...then it be like a
fan group or something... ooo eee. lots of different ingredients make
a great cake, not just one or two..

keep on keeping on..send in your posts .. do your thing...and DO NOT
FADE OUT


do.... not...... fade................. ou.-.t ; )

On Apr 15, 9:09 am, paul <pauljthomp...@hotmail.co.uk> wrote:

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul



On Apr 16, 3:59 pm, rachel <lightheartedheal...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote:

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul



On Apr 16, 3:59 pm, rachel <lightheartedheal...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote:

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul



On Apr 16, 3:59 pm, rachel <lightheartedheal...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote:

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul



On Apr 16, 3:59 pm, rachel <lightheartedheal...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote:

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul



On Apr 16, 3:59 pm, rachel <lightheartedheal...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote:

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul



On Apr 16, 3:59 pm, rachel <lightheartedheal...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote:

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul



On Apr 16, 3:59 pm, rachel <lightheartedheal...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote:

[paul]

Such nice & lovely messages everyone; thank you.

Perhaps I'd better not fade away then ....

Rachel's last couple of lines made me laugh ... and Katie's
reminiscences were very warm ... Claudia & Deborah clearly I must be
more mindful; I think partly cause I never feel 'good enough', i end
up [over?]compensating ...

So many angels around these days, in the clouds, in the light; but
darkness too.

Thanks All very muchly

Paul



On Apr 16, 3:59 pm, rachel <lightheartedheal...@yahoo.co.uk> wrote: