thanks for replies.
fortunately i solved my problem which i hoped to get help from quickstart example.
the problem was how to configure server identity and secret from wildfly 13 in wildfly 26 with elytron to use remoting between wildfly servers.
the remoting subsystem i configured
<subsystem xmlns="urn:jboss:domain:remoting:4.0">
<http-connector name="http-remoting-connector" connector-ref="https2" sasl-authentication-factory="application-sasl-authentication"/>
<outbound-connections>
<remote-outbound-connection name="storage-manager-connection" outbound-socket-binding-ref="storage-manager" authentication-context="remote_authentication">
<properties>
<property name="SASL_POLICY_NOANONYMOUS" value="false"/>
<property name="SSL_ENABLED" value="true"/>
</properties>
</remote-outbound-connection>
</outbound-connections>
</subsystem>
the elytron authentication context i configured
<authentication-client>
<authentication-configuration name="auth-conf" authentication-name="myuser" protocol="remote+https" realm="ApplicationRealm" forwarding-mode="authentication" sasl-mechanism-selector="DIGEST-MD5">
<credential-reference store="credential" alias="74h1xni74v"/>
</authentication-configuration>
<authentication-context name="remote_authentication">
<match-rule match-host="SERVER16" authentication-configuration="auth-conf"/>
</authentication-context>
</authentication-client>
<credential-stores>
<credential-store name="credential" relative-to="jboss.server.config.dir" location="mycredstore.cs" create="true">
<credential-reference clear-text="mypassword"/>
</credential-store>
</credential-stores>
and finally the socket binding
<outbound-socket-binding name="storage-manager">
<remote-destination host="SERVER16" port="40100"/>
</outbound-socket-binding>
may be this helps someone