First, I'm so sorry for the delayed response, Noah. This message got by me. If you're ever feeling ignored, please email me directly at
ethan...@gmail.com.
If a band member makes an ICal export, and your account is configured for "Band members see only their gigs", then that will accomplish what you're looking for.
If you want to review gigs that a particular member is assigned to, you can do this from the "Band Members" => "Gig Assignment" page. Select the member on the Select List, and gig's they are assigned to will have the checkbox set:
(This is also a very efficient way to reassign multiple gigs to a substitute player instead of editing a bunch of gigs one at a time.)
--Ethan