Gabriel, you could try building a Markov model (really haMSM if your sim started from a localized region) and use that to calculate relaxation times of auto-correlation functions. So, for instance, if you can define state B as a set of microbins in the (ha)MSM, you could calculate
< h_B(0) h_B(t) >
where h_B is an indicator function. The associated relaxation time would be a reasonable proxy for the lifetime.
--Dan