Hi, you haven't said where you're running Lighthouse (in DevTools, in PageSpeed Insights, or in CI), but let's assume DevTools for now.
Lighthouse uses particular settings for it's run. In particular in throttles CPU, and network on mobile. You can see this when you hover over the Device and Network settings in the middle column at the bottom:
For mobile it uses 4x slowdown, so it's unsurprising that LCP is 4x slower. The is based on the fact that most mobile devices are considerably slower than most developers desktop machines.
For desktop Lighthouse tests, there is no throttling, so they are likely to be more inline with your unthrottled tests.
For PageSpeed Insights (PSI) and CI, the Lighthouse figures will depend on the hardware it's run on. You can see in the above screenshot that my M1 Macbook has a base rating of 3079 but for PSI the servers are much more constrained by that.
When using Lighthouse it's better to think of them as just one example load of what the page might be like under those particular conditions. For CI you can tweak the throttling settings to better match your userbase if you know the types of devices your users use. But personally I think it's better to just use the same Lighthouse in before and after runs to measure the impact of any improvements rather than worry about calibrating them too much.