Hi, Thank you for the reply. I called to make sure the bearing kit was available for my kit, and told them that I would call back to order it once I figured out if that was the issue. I spend about 1.5 hrs taking it apart today after work, and sure enough it is the spider arm is cracked in 2 of the three arms. The washing machine is about 13 years old, so not too bad how long it lasted. The tub can be around $350, and then not sure about the pump as well, also we've had the board replaced once, so at this point I am calling it quits and we are going tomorrow to purchase a new one.
I must say that the amount of work that seems to have to go into taking it apart sounds overwhelming, and this is my first taking a washing machine apart, it wasn't too bad once i got going. It took about 1.5 hours to disassemble it (marking/taking pictures of all the parts that need to go back together), and about 45 minutes to put it back together. I only wish it would have been all worth while, but at least it was a learning experience.
Great video on how to replace the bearing. the only part that gave me a bit of trouble was removing the 4 stabilizer/shock units, other than that it was ok, definitely not something you can rush if you expect everything to go back right.
Thank you all for the great info.