Fw: 7 Habits of Highly Effective people

[surendra ratnaparkhi]

Hello Bhai log,

 

Seems all are busy either making dollars or something ..something , no any msgs in past year or so . Kahan ho sab ?. May be all of you are in contact through face book . Its blocked in China so i am unable to access most of the times.

 

I know you all already effective but still may be useful for you so sharing below :)

 

Keep in touch ,

Best wishes , Ratna.,.

 

Surendra Ratnaparkhi

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Sent: Monday, July 23, 2012 6:29 PM
Subject: 7 Habits of Highly Effective people

RIP Stephen Covey: Here Are His Famous '7 Habits Of Highly Effective People'

In honor of renowned author Stephen Covey, who died this morning at age 79, we've decided to succinctly break down the "7 Habits of Highly Effective People" from his all-time best-selling book, which sold 20 million copies. 

Here's the short version, but we recommend you buy his book:

1) Be Proactive

As human beings, we are responsible for our own lives. We have the independent will to make our own choices and decisions, and the responsibility ("the ability to respond") to make the right choices. You have the freedom to choose your own fate and path, so having the independent will, imagination and self-awareness to make the right move makes you a proactive, and not a reactive, person.

2) Begin With The End In Mind

Mental visualization is extremely important. Covey says that all things are created twice: first, the mental conceptualization and visualization and a second physical, actual creation. Becoming your own creator means to plan and visualize what you're going to do and what you're setting out to accomplish and then go out and creating it. Identifying your personal statement and your principles will help.

3) Put First Things First

With your power of independent will, you can create the ending you want to have. Part of that comes with effective time management, starting with matters of importance. Then tasks should be completed based on urgency after you deal with all the important matters. If you deal with crises, pressing problems and deadline-driven projects first, your life will be a lot easier.

4) Think Win/Win

If you believe in a better way to accomplish goals that's mutually beneficial to all sides, that's a win/win situation. "All parties feel good about the decision and feel committed to the action plan," Covey wrote. "One person's success is not achieved at the expense or exclusion of the success of others." If you have integrity and maturity, there's no reason win/win situations can't happen all the time.

5) Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood

If you're a good listener and you take the time to understand a concept, it will help you convey your opinions, plans and goals to others. It starts with communication and strong listening skills, followed by diagnosing the situation and then communicating your solution to others.

6) Synergize

Synergistic communication, according to Covey, is "opening your mind and heart to new possibilities, new alternatives, new options." This applies to the classroom, the business world and wherever you could apply openness and communication. It's all about building cooperation and trust.

7) Sharpen The Saw

Sometimes you're working so hard on the other six habits that you forget about re-energizing and renewing yourself to sharpen yourself for the tasks in front of you. Some sharpening techniques include exercise and nutrition, reading, planning and writing, service and empathy and commitment, study and meditation.

[Ajay Sasidharan]

Hey Ratna,

 

Thanks for breaking the prolonged silence in the fauji group DL.

Hope all our brethren & their families are doing well.

 

Btw...Why did they block you on Facebook...:) kya kiya tu ne?

 

Fauji Bhaiyon: Let's plan to have a conference call one of these days. Kitney aadmi hai??..:)

 

Keep it coming folks....

 

Warm regards,

Ajju

410-818-0248

[surendra ratnaparkhi]

Hey Ajju ,
Good bhai , hopefully fauji's response , so far only u & dixit replied .
Its not my fb account blocked . FB site is blocked , cant open here & same for youtube. They hv some reasons for block & interesting is here have local versions of both sites which hv almost same features . For facebook is weibo.com & same as youtube is youku.com
Ha..h...you may not know this , right?.

Rest all fine & i am ok for conf. Call , lets make on skype once all confirm.
Best wishes , ratna..,
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On Thu, Jul 26, 2012 6:04 PM PDT Ajay Sasidharan wrote:

>Hey Ratna,
>
>Thanks for breaking the prolonged silence in the fauji group DL.
>Hope all our brethren & their families are doing well.
>
>Btw...Why did they block you on Facebook...:) kya kiya tu ne?
>
>Fauji Bhaiyon: Let's plan to have a conference call one of these days.
>Kitney aadmi hai??..:)
>
>Keep it coming folks....
>
>Warm regards,
>Ajju
>410-818-0248
>On Wed, Jul 25, 2012 at 8:42 AM, surendra ratnaparkhi <
>ratnaparkh...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>
>> Hello Bhai log,
>>
>> Seems all are busy either making dollars or something ..something , no any
>> msgs in past year or so . Kahan ho sab ?. May be all of you are in contact
>> through face book . Its blocked in China so i am unable to access most of
>> the times.
>>
>> I know you all already effective but still may be useful for you so
>> sharing below :)
>>
>> Keep in touch ,
>> Best wishes , Ratna.,.
>>

>> *Surendra Ratnaparkhi*
>>
>> ----- Forwarded Message -----
>> *From:* Sushil Asar <sushi...@yahoo.com>
>> *To:* Pradeep Manik <pradee...@yahoo.com>; AMITA GIRISH <

>> amitag...@gmail.com>; jayanti-gita <jven...@au1.ibm.com>; "
>> gupta....@gmail.com" <gupta....@gmail.com>; bindiya-gita <
>> riya_...@yahoo.co.in>; sashi-gita <sakshi...@gmail.com>; "
>> shm...@vgmail.in" <shm...@vgmail.in>; "suree...@gmail.com" <
>> suree...@gmail.com>; "abhish...@gmail.com" <abhish...@gmail.com>;
>> amit kamini-gita <amitjo...@hotmail.com>; amit jain-gita <
>> amit.j....@gmail.com>; "gkul...@vgmail.in" <gkul...@vgmail.in>;
>> ranjan mundra <mundra...@hotmail.com>; parag goswami <
>> paraggo...@gmail.com>; "rati...@live.com" <rati...@live.com>; "
>> lucky...@halsonsgroup.com" <lucky...@halsonsgroup.com>; "
>> krish...@gmail.com" <krish...@gmail.com>; sandeep vyas <
>> sandy...@gmail.com>; "ratnaparkh...@yahoo.com" <
>> ratnaparkh...@yahoo.com>; zhu ping <zps...@gmail.com>; "
>> riya.s...@gmail.com" <riya.s...@gmail.com>

>> *Sent:* Monday, July 23, 2012 6:29 PM
>> *Subject:* 7 Habits of Highly Effective people
>> **

>> RIP Stephen Covey: Here Are His Famous '7 Habits Of Highly Effective
>> People'

>> In honor of renowned author Stephen Covey, who died this morning at age 79<http://www.cnn.com/2012/07/16/us/obit-stephen-covey/>,

>> we've decided to succinctly break down the "7 Habits of Highly Effective
>> People" from his all-time best-selling book, which sold 20 million copies.

>> Here's the short version, but we recommend you buy his book:<http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1417656646/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1417656646&linkCode=as2&tag=thebusiinsi-20>
>> **<http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1417656646/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1417656646&linkCode=as2&tag=thebusiinsi-20>
>> **
>> *1) Be Proactive*

>> As human beings, we are responsible for our own lives. We have the
>> independent will to make our own choices and decisions, and the
>> responsibility ("the ability to respond") to make the right choices. You
>> have the freedom to choose your own fate and path, so having the
>> independent will, imagination and self-awareness to make the right move
>> makes you a proactive, and not a reactive, person.

>> *
>> *
>> *2) Begin With The End In Mind*

>> Mental visualization is extremely important. Covey says that all things
>> are created twice: first, the mental conceptualization and visualization
>> and a second physical, actual creation. Becoming your own creator means to
>> plan and visualize what you're going to do and what you're setting out to
>> accomplish and then go out and creating it. Identifying your personal
>> statement and your principles will help.

>> *
>> *
>> *3) Put First Things First*

>> With your power of independent will, you can create the ending you want to
>> have. Part of that comes with effective time management, starting with
>> matters of importance. Then tasks should be completed based on urgency
>> after you deal with all the important matters. If you deal with crises,
>> pressing problems and deadline-driven projects first, your life will be a
>> lot easier.

>> **
>> *4) Think Win/Win*

>> If you believe in a better way to accomplish goals that's mutually
>> beneficial to all sides, that's a win/win situation. "All parties feel good
>> about the decision and feel committed to the action plan," Covey wrote.
>> "One person's success is not achieved at the expense or exclusion of the
>> success of others." If you have integrity and maturity, there's no reason
>> win/win situations can't happen all the time.

>> *
>> 5) Seek First To Understand, Then To Be Understood*

>> If you're a good listener and you take the time to understand a concept,
>> it will help you convey your opinions, plans and goals to others. It starts
>> with communication and strong listening skills, followed by diagnosing the
>> situation and then communicating your solution to others.

>> *
>> *
>> *6) Synergize*

>> Synergistic communication, according to Covey, is "opening your mind and
>> heart to new possibilities, new alternatives, new options." This applies to
>> the classroom, the business world and wherever you could apply openness and
>> communication. It's all about building cooperation and trust.

>> *
>> *
>> *7) Sharpen The Saw*

>> Sometimes you're working so hard on the other six habits that you forget
>> about re-energizing and renewing yourself to sharpen yourself for the tasks
>> in front of you. Some sharpening techniques include exercise and nutrition,
>> reading, planning and writing, service and empathy and commitment, study
>> and meditation.

>> **
>> **
>> **
>> ****
>>

[sagar khanvilkar]

hey Ratnya, whats happening. don't worry. you are not missing a lot. everyone is quite on Facebook too. Only pawan bhai is active on FB. He keeps sending motivational feeds on FB and rest of us read it and are super motivated by now :)

[naresh_choudhary]

Aney do bhai log..

"Tumhi ho Bandhu..Sakha tumhi ho"...New song from Cocktail movie :)

Guys the Hum toh Fauji goup is defunct, the Google Group is active, so we need to exchange info more often to be able to keep in touch. Good start Ratnya!

Regards
Naresh Choudhary

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[Abhay_Mohata]

Good to see mails from our fauji groups..

BTW I also never visit FB. Once I reach home – I don’t touch laptop!

 

Please invite me also for conf call – will join

 

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