The most recent Vim version is now 7.4.861. There have been multiple crash fixes in the nearly 600 updates that have occurred since your version was created. You might have better luck with the latest version. No guarantees, though.
+1 for the LargeFile plugin. Though, vim does everything in memory, if you have less RAM than the size of the file it will be swapping and so slow.
> it kept moving really slow. I couldn't really highlight anything quickly
Some syntax highlighting can get very slow; what syntax was being used?
Also, vim can get slow if lines are very long, say kilobytes. I've had usable performance looking at largeish log files with syntax highlighting by using drastically simple highlighting.