Granted, fewer venues run them. The New Yorker predicted the utter demise of the personal essay only a year ago. My local public radio station, long a hold-out against what appeared to be a gathering tide against the form, was still running them until recently, which is long after NPR shifted to airing far fewer than they once did.
No matter. I advise my students and clients to write them. After all, if you master the personal essay, you can master the scene. Master the scene and you can write seventy-five of them and have yourself a book. So write them. Anyway, they will be back, of course. Like high (or low) hemlines they are reflective of how much we want to show of ourselves.
At Christmas in 2004, my sister, Margaret, began giving me silver. Under the tree that morning were several long, slender but heavy boxes wrapped in white satin ribbon and addressed to me. I could not imagine what was in them: matching boxes, six of them all beautifully wrapped. First of all, she never wraps. Margaret gives gifts still in their shopping bags, sometimes swiping the price tags off as she passes them to the receiver.
All told, they represented a tribal currency that I had once thought was securely in the bank. There was a time when I thought that people were expected to have silver and china and crystal, and that I expected to have them, choosing them at the time of my own wedding. Merely silver, perhaps, to me it had been gold bullion, a representation of the standard below which you did not slip. Then the exchange rate changed, and the flatware would have to be counted among the least of our losses during that time.
What went away with the silver was only really appraised at full value when I saw it again. I looked as best I could at Margaret over the first of the open boxes, but I remember dropping my head close to my chest, hushed except for the quiet exhalation of something long held in, recognizing in that moment that I was not only understood by her but also accepted for who I am. I had loved these things and apparently neither one of us was ashamed to admit it. It was a genuine reckoning between us.
When we were kids, Margaret made herself well understood on the topic of gifts. One Christmas in Douglaston, our hometown, she simply made two piles: The keepers and the take-backs, stacking the boxes in their respective columns right there, under the Christmas tree and in front of the givers. She was 15. I was as amazed as I was appalled, but remained inclined to thank my parents and grandparents and shove the gift in some drawer. Not Margaret, who was honest to a fault as soon as she could speak.
By the time the silver began to arrive there had been an extended period of balance between us. In several succeeding years a piece or two from the pattern was under the tree. Several people asked about it as it was used at dinner parties, and I found that when I spoke of the silver there was a distinct lack of longing in my voice. It was almost as if the precious metal had become demagnetized and had instead acquired a new charge; shifting away from being about them, it was now about us, this family right now. Having been lost for so long must have abetted that response, but it was more than that. Quite simply, I loved it differently. No longer a currency, it was now a decoration, a pure delight to behold.
As I spied the most recent Christmas box, I quickly did an inventory in my head: I had everything; complete place settings for eight, as well as serving spoons, polished and safely tucked away in silver cloth to be unwrapped later in the day for the Christmas feast.
Tearing open the box, I laughed right out loud as soon as I saw it, spitting my tea right down my pajama front as I did. Margaret shook her head and rolled her eyes, taking me in over her half-rimmed glasses as I waved my new acquisition over my head.
Wow! This is a great example of how writing can crystallize emotions and personal history. I love to write essays, and usually run out of anything substantive to say after a few pages. Thanks for posting.
I love this piece, Marion. It almost makes this only child wish she had a sister. How delightful it would be to have someone with the same blood running through their body totally understand and balance me.
I thoroughly enjoyed this. Moving and instructive, the essay captured the essence of heirlooms. Your portrayal of Margaret is at once glowing and realistic. My favorite part was reveling with both of you at the presentation of the tomato fork. Stuff, as the younger generation calls it, is best appreciated with the wisdom of age.
I have to write essays in two examinations which will be conducted soon. Those exams need essays to be written in 250 words. The topics are given on the time of the exams and are usually anything based on government schemes, matters of national and international importance, or anything that is often in news, etc. Last year (I think), they asked essays on Ethical banking, Influence of social media, Contribution of unorganised Sector in Indian economy, etc.
Essentially, this is a test of writing rather than that of knowledge. However, I think it's best if the essay essentially is somehow "complete" covering as many important aspect as possible even if in layman's terms. So, what structure may I follow to write good yet comprehensive essays in the word limits of 250 words?
I would take the standard 5 paragraph Essay format but modified for brevity. Your thesis or introduction answer should be your immediate answer to a writing prompt and should be no more than one sentance. Rephrase the question as your sentance (i.e. if the question is "What would be the platform you would run on if you were running for President of the United States?" then your response should be "If I were to run for President of the United States, my platform would address [item 1], [Item 2], and [item 3]."). Your conclusion paragraph should restate the thesis. The three paragraphs in between should briefly address best arguements for your thesis in order of strongest to weakest (for me, my answers would be economic improvement by reworking tax laws, foreign policy that would place the country in step with a more neutral pre-WWII dealing, and an infrastructure modernization program.). A good 3-4 paragraph argument would suffice for each.
Now before I give you my last piece of advise, do keep in mind that this was given to me by a teacher at an all boys high school, so it was tailored to it's audience of teenager boys who naturally have only one thing on their mind at any give momement. It still helps me to this day, and the somewhat crass nature of the analogy hammers it in:
That is you shouldn't get far into the weeds on your point or points, especially on test essays. Also do not feel the need to hold strictly to the word count other than try to get the 250 word mark (most essays graders will judge by the eye, so a little wiggle room is allowed. Additionally most won't mark down if the essay goes over 250, though again, keep it close... they aren't asking for a Tolkien novel series. Obviously if you have a word counting program (assuming it's typed and not handwritten), don't short by a word and find a way you can squeeze in a fancy adjective that isn't going to be supferlous.
250 isn't a lot to work with. To get an idea, a 500 word essay assumes 5 paragraphs, each 3-4 sentances long and will fill about one 8X11 inche page on a word processor with a 12 inche font and double spaced. To give yourself a guestimate, google some writing prompts and try to answer them with 250 words but less than 300.
A short essay is any type of essay condensed to its most important elements. There is no universal answer to what a short essay length is, but teachers generally assign short essays in the 250- to 750-word range, and occasionally up to 1,000 words.
Critical thinking: Writing a short essay demands the ability to think critically and identify key points that support the central thesis. Short essays will help you hone your ability to find the most relevant points and shed irrelevant information.
Developing writing skills: As with all writing practice, short essays provide an excellent platform for you to refine your writing skills, such as grammar, sentence structure, vocabulary, and coherence. The more you practice crafting short essays, the more your overall writing proficiency improves.
The tactics you use for longer essays apply to short essays as well. For more in-depth guides on specific types of essays, you can read our posts on persuasive, personal, expository, compare-and-contrast, and argumentative essays. Regardless of the essay type, following these five steps will make writing your short essay much easier.
Naturally, our favorite part of the process is the editing. The hard part (writing) is done. Now you can go back through and make sure all of your word choices make sense, your grammar is checked, and you have cleaned up any unessential or irrelevant information.
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