Gurukula - Gurukula - Gurukula.
Practically all the above problems are resolved when you bring up kids in
the right way. The elites know this and have designed education to make
compliant wage slaves who are plagued all the above shortcomings.
All it takes is fifteen to twenty years to bring up kids for whom varnasrama
culture and all it represents is just second nature.
We need a few adults to set things up for them so that when they graduate
they have a place to do their thing with full support. As you point out,
only a handful of adults are ready to surrender to a varnasrama lifestyle.
They should help to oversee the development of schools. But of course we
have to be super vigilant to make sure that those in contact with children
are properly motivated and can be trusted.
The developing world crisis will also go a long way in changing peoples
minds, but you just cannot replace the hardwiring of a persons brain during
childhood. It sets the tone for everything.
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We have to work on so many fronts simultaneously and it is possible to
convert some people, but without providing full life training from the
earliest age it will always remain a great struggle.
Your servant
Samba das
Haribol, and thank you for letting me join in your discussion group,
which I was hoping was existing in some part of the world, just didn't
know where. It has long been apparent to me that most of our problems
can be traced back to VA not being implemented in our society, and
that implementing it would have great spiritual and psychological
benefits for our members, as well as making our society actually "a
house in which the whole world can live". I have written a book,
"Varnashrama the eight-petalled lotus" which expands upon these as
well as the following ideas...
FAITH, VARNASHRAMA… AND AIR-BORNE CHILDREN
Varnashrama is often equated with self-sufficiency, yet it is much
more than that, providing a paradigm wherein many of our current
problems, plaguing us since our inception, find their solution.
Currently being discussed on the internet is the problem of
brahmacaris neglecting their future careers, and thereby entering the
grhastha ashrama, unprepared. Coincidentally this is being discussed
in two different forums- hence emphasizing the seriousness of the
situation. It was observed that when brahmacaris neglect their
careers, they often cannot afford child support when the marriage
splits- which often happens because we also do not teach that love is
so important in the family. Because they cannot afford child support
payments, due to not having a decent career, the issue often ends up
in the courts- which is really bad for our reputation, what to speak
of not pleasing Srila Prabhupada.
The varnashrama paradigm is very different to our current situation…
During brahmacarya, the student is observed very carefully, and his
desires, talents and propensities are considered, and then he is
advised to get training accordingly- in one of the four varnas.
Brahmana Varna
ISKCON can provide training for brahmanas provided that we teach the
value of honesty, the most basic and essential brahminical principle.
There is philosophical honesty, which has two parts- 1) theoretical
philosophical honesty- which is to argue cogently, with reason, thus
establishing the truth of an argument and 2) practical philosophical
honesty- which is to use the philosophy in a way that allows people to
be themselves, without fear of judgement and condemnation. If instead
we model pretense, in Srila Prabhupada’s coinage “showbottle
spirituality”, then our brahmanas might as well be trained in
philosophy at a university- at least they will learn to argue
cogently, and convince with reason.
Other Varnas
In these ways, ISKCON can provide training if the brahmacari is sure
that he only wants to maintain a family the brahminical way- through
teaching practical applications of the philosophy. As far as other
varnas are concerned, brahmacaris can attend university or technical
colleges, according to their propensities. In Canberra, Australia,
they have Indian brahmacaris studying at university and living at the
temple. They can either pay rent if they have time to work part-time,
or they may prefer to do service.
Brahmacari Ashrama
We must remember that brahmacari does not mean sannyasi- he is
renounced, but often not planning for permanent renunciation.
Brahmacari also does not mean brahmana- he may be interested in the
philosophy, but more suited to work that is not directly teaching it.
Or he may be interested in the philosophy, but unable to follow all
the brahminical principles. That situation includes most of those who
join us- we should make facility for it, not pretend that we just
chant Hare Krsna, and close our eyes and all problems will vanish like
magic. Srila Prabhupada chanted Hare Krsna too, but he observed this
problem- with open eyes- and recommended varnashrama. Let brahmacaris
(and brahmacarinis) decide on their varna, and get trained in it. They
can also distribute books to their friends at college, or during their
holidays.
Faith and the Air-Borne Child
The temple presidents in our movement would probably not like such a
situation, as they may think "if we encourage all brahmacaris to get
training for their future careers, then less books will go out, and
therefore there will be less money for the temple programs"…
My answer to them is as follows ...
1) Srila Prabhupada set the example of doing what is right, and
leaving the results in Krsna's hands, having faith that He will always
protect us if we take risks on His behalf. We cannot please Krsna
while we neglect the instructions of His pure devotee...So we must ask
ourselves "Do we have only a lip-service attitude to our faith in
Srila Prabhupada- proclaiming it, but not really feeling it?" If we do
have faith, then we cannot help but show it. Faith means a leap in the
dark, a leap into the unknown. It’s like a child laughing when his
parents throw him up in the air- his carefree attitude is because he
has utmost faith that his parents will catch him!
Short-Term Pain, Long-Term Gain
2) Letting devotees follow their propensity and getting training for
it, means that they are naturally situated in whatever work they are
best suited for; work that they are happy to engage in their whole
lives. That means a vast reduction in the numbers of devotees leaving
ISKCON to do other stuff- they can do their "other stuff" in ISKCON!
What this translates to, in strictly financial terms, is instead of a
few devotees giving out books full-time, and often getting stressed
and burnt-out in the process, you have a huge number of devotees
giving out books part-time and in natural spontaneous ways- sharing
them with friends and associates. You also have, in financial terms, a
devotee community that is capable of donating to the temple programs.
This is already happening in the Indian congregation. They did not
spend their student life in full-time book sales, but mainly in
studying, and now they can not only donate to the temple, but also
support book distribution is respectable ways, amongst colleagues...
Internal Rewards
So Srila Prabhupada's recommendation is not even a "leap in the dark"
but has already been shown to work much better than the current ISKCON
model (how many of our Indian congregation “bloop”- never to be seen
again?) It is natural, and therefore it uproots the anarthas of
falsity and pretense, mentioned by Sri Chaitanya in Caitanya
Caritamrita. Srimad Bhagavatam was spoken specifically for those who
are “thoroughly honest”. Apart from greatly advanced avadhutas, many
of the great souls mentioned in that literature, followed their duties
in varnashrama- as well as the author! Only those who are beyond any
influence of the modes of nature, need give up varnashrama, and even
then they often do not, as it is a vehicle for service…
The Self-Sufficiency Insufficiency
Varnashrama, therefore, does not mean just self-sufficiency, as some
think. It is not a synonym for life on a farm- it can happen anywhere
there are people interested to become devotees. Of course, at a farm,
the training is much simpler, as is the lifestyle. That does not mean
that ksatriyas should not take advantage of management courses-
currently much of what is considered “management” is the people-skills
necessary for a ksatriya to be respected and appreciated. Devotees
will willingly and joyfully serve a person who is always enquiring
about their welfare, and doing everything to help them be happy, and
grow in Krsna Consciousness.
From Care-Borne to Air-Borne
If in the community, love and honesty between the devotees is
stressed, then naturally when two devotees join forces and become
married, they will be loving and respectful, and the likelihood of
divorce is much reduced. It is not enough to make child abuse
unacceptable- one must foster that healthy dynamic which creates an
atmosphere in which such exploitation cannot take place. If we respect
the uniqueness of each person that joins us, working out how we can
engage them so that they are most joyful by nurturing their natural
talents – we will also respect the uniqueness of each devotee born
into our movement.
If, on the other hand, we have a mood of exploitation, even for
“Krsna’s service”, towards those innocent souls who are attracted to
our movement, then our children will also be abused, as they are in
the same category…It is the ksatriya’s responsibility, given in the
sastra, to make sure that no one in his “kingdom” or precinct, suffers
in any way, even mentally. He is that person who has the most people-
skills- or willing to learn them!
Non-Judgmental Religion?
It is clear from the Mahabharata and Srimad Bhagavatam, that
varnashrama is a very loving and non-judgmental dynamic- in Dwaraka
even the prostitutes were respected! When the religious become steeped
in self-righteous condemnation of others, they do more to further the
cause of atheism, than if they took to a full-time career of
disproving God. We do not have prostitutes joining us, generally, but
we do have couples and others who sometimes fail the “no illicit sex”
principle strictly. If even a prostitute can be a respected devotee
of the Lord, what to speak of a devoted couple, fully dedicated to the
Lord’s service? What to speak of a fully devoted gay couple?
Varnashrama needs to be there, so that everyone can be a devotee of
the Lord, who wants to be, be included in a community of devotees, be
engaged in service that is pleasing and natural, be able to support
their families- and the temple, and thrive in an atmosphere of mutual
respect and appreciation…despite their differences. Of course, it may
be argued that all of the above can be cultivated without varnashrama,
which is a circular argument, because all of the above means that
there is the varnashrama dynamic in place, whether we call it that or
not.