Themain theme of surah Taghabun( arabic:سورة التغابن ) is An invitation to Faith, obedience, and submission to Allah, belief in His Messenger Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) and his teachings, and choosing good morals over evil wicked bad manners, in order not to regret the bad destiny that they will face at the end of time due to their own choice to disbelieve.
Allah The Almighty revealed surah tagabun to Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) to give consolation to the New Muslims who were opposed by their families when they wanted to migrate to Madina to start a new life joining Prophet Muhammed, as surah tagabun is delivering a message to believers telling them to be patient and they will be rewarded for their suffering and endurance by entering such a Paradise just prepared for them as sincere faithful believers where they will live their true genuine life.
And recite them 100 times after Fajr and Isha prayers and 33 times after Zuhr, Asr, Maghrib prayers, then after Isha prayer, he should make Dua to Allah asking Allah to facilitate reasons for him to pay his debt, and InshaAllah all the means will be paved for him to pay the debt and will happen miraculously.
Yawma yajmaAAukum liyawmi aljamAAi thalika yawmu alttaghabuni waman yumin biAllahi wayaAAmal salihan yukaffir AAanhu sayyiatihi wayudkhilhu jannatin tajree min tahtiha alanharu khalideena feeha abadan thalika alfawzu alAAatheemu
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Recently, it came to my attention that there are several families who are struggling to deal with the stigma of having a special needs child, and it is quite disturbing what I have heard. I am not going to write the stories of these people, since they had trusted me and reached out to me in their dire state.
Thus, the purpose of this blog to help Muslim families with autistic children. To give them spiritual reminders and offer helpful, practical advice as well as a support network for those who have no other support.
Non-Muslim visitors, though, are welcome too. Anyone who wants to be part of the great effort of helping these children, and the families blessed to raise them, is welcome here and asked to share their ideas with us.
I would like to thank you for your wonderful and inspirational blog. I am not a Muslim but I am mother of a little boy recently diagnosed as being on the Autism Spectrum. I just felt compelled to let you that I find your blog a huge comfort and enlightening. You, your family and special little boy are in my thoughts and prayers.
AA, hamdullah I came to the right site after 4 yrs. Brother thanku for sharing this verse. My son is also diagnosed with PDD Nos he is 4 yrs old he only drinks strawberry flavor milk. If there is any Surah or ayah I cud blow over him so he starts eating solids n wonderful foods Allah has created.
Thanku
ws, Any part of the Quran that is used for rokia can be recited over drinks food, olive oil etc. For example fatiha, Annas, Falaq, Iklas, Please check the ingredients in that strawberry milk because many have food coloring artificial sweetener and or preservatives that are adverse for children with autism. If your child like strawberry milk make it fresh at home with the real things.That way you know no food coloring and other additives are in it.
thanx 4 clearifyin one thing dat these children r a blessin and not a curse coz ever since iam facing this situation i was confusd dat may b i have done something wrong dat Allah has tested me like this.coz u know there is this aaya dat vatever good happens to u is 4m Allah and vatever bad happens is coz of ur own deeds .so i was very confusd but u changd my prospective today.JazakAllah.
So having a special needs child is jut one test that Allah gave to us among the many tests that people experience. It is indeed a blessing from Allah because He, in His infinite wisdom, chose special parents for special children. He also chose these parents because they could handle this test as Allah elsewhere states,
wswrwb sister, yes i laways make dua, and best dua is coming from your heart. Also I say a dua for his speech her it is
RUBB-ISHRA LI SADRI WA YASSIR LIAMRI,
WAHLUL UQDATAM MI LI SAANI YAF QAHUU QUAWLI..
translation ( Oh my Lord! Expand my breast, ease my task for me, and remove the impediment from my speech, so they may understand what I say.
Surat Taha 25-28)
I always say this several times a day, and one day i felt very sad and could not finish this dua and started crying. My son was non verbal, and on my lap. He finished it for me the entire dua. I always tried to make him say a word or even just a sound he never imitated it, and one day he finished the entire dua. So as you can see, they do take everything in, and it will be a time when all that will come to light.
Also, just talk to Allah and ask him what you want from him sincerely from your heart.
Salam Alaikom.
My Daughter is 11 months old and not responding when we call her name. I was googling stuff about autism and found alot of similarities with her behaviour and that of autestic children. I ask Allah to make all of your lives easier, and grant you the highest of paradise for your efforts and struggles. I ask Allah to not burden any one from ummat Mohammes (saws) more than they can bare. Oh Allah, please protect our children from all pain and illness. Oh Allah You are the all knowing and we no not. Ameen. If my daughter does have Autism, i will inshallah be patient and turn to Allah for help. This is an amazing blog. I am so glad i found it. May Allah reward every muslim as much as there is sand in the ocean , AMEEN.
wswrwb , ameen to all that you said. I am not sure where you live but in the USA in every state they have early intervention programs which are free and very effective. If you live here please seek help as soon as possible to have your child screened, and given therapy right away. Early interventions are very effective, and many chldren with therapy gets better or even loose their diagnosis. looking forward to see your comments here. If you have any questions comments please feel free to share it with us.
May Allah help us all, and give us what is better for us..ameen
wswrwb sister. I am a sister by the way, and I welcoming you to this blog.
It is common that one, or sometimes both parents do not accepting that is something wrong with the child. You must not see that something is wrong, you must see you need to do things in a different way with him. It is good that you started early intervention. The sooner they get their therapies, the better outcome can be expected. My son talked earlier than he lost all his words, now he is starting again.. Do not ever give up hope sister, because there is always hope. Always some improvement. It may seem insignificant to you, but all those changes are leaps and bounds. Appreciate the little wonders and thank Allah for all the blessings, and Allah will remember that you are grateful to him with everything.
There are times when we feel overwhelmed and alone, but please know you are never alone, you have your Creator with you just turn to him, and you have the entire autism community there too, you just need to reach out./ If you have any questions please feel free to email, or comment, and I always answer everyone. If you need to ask me anything privately feel free to contact me, and indicate that you want your question answered privately. I started this blog to help my fellow autism parents in any way I can, because I know how it feels to be a parent of an autistic child.
Please be strong and know the dua has a great power. I personally experienced it first hand three times already that only our creator can help us. When everyone on the medical field told me that there is no hope for my son to survive and no one knew what is happening with him, and told me to prepare for his death, things had changed after duas . YOU keep your hopes and dreams, it will come to you, maybe later or in a different way but Allah knows what is best for us, and we have to fully believe in that.
email me
aminsaw...@gmail.com. Speech therapy and any therapy can take some time. be consistent, and do things at home what they do with him at tharapy. when he gets the extra effort from home it will make a huge difference. We all need to work closely with the therapists and schools to continue their work at home as well, and everyone in the family to be on the same page with the child.
I think you are not the only one worrying about this. You would not be human if you do not have this feelings. the trick is not to let this overcome your entire life. have faith and do whatever needs to be done to ensure he will have someone look after him, and to be as independent as he can be.
My dream is that my son will be self-sufficient one day and he will never have to rely on anyone.
I hope Allah will grant that for him and me. Take care see you soon.
May Allah Reward you for your effort and
bless your family my sister. Maachallah i really appreciate your blog. reading your blog is something amazing, i feel so good, balanced and ready for the journey inshallah because last week my 3 years old son was diagnosted autistic. may Allah guide us to the right things to do during this situation.
ws, Thank you so much for commenting. I wanted to write about the sibling point f view in this matter I was wondering if you want to write a post for my website about your feelings and struggles. How do you handle having and ASD sibling overall. I think the siblings of ASD kids need to have a voice as they have to deal with much more than their typical friends. Let me know if you are interested, and all credit will go to you, or if you wish to be anonymous as well your privacy will be protected.
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