Correction:Excellent : Bola tinubu on Boy child education by Augustine Togonu Bickersteth London England 🇬🇧 may 25 2026

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Dear President  Bola tinubu boy child programme of your administration  is one of the most remarkable things you have done  if not the most remarkable.  I think it's your  most remarkable  intervention.

Why? The child  is the father  of the man as one thinker put it.and as the Greek philosopher  protagoras puts it.man is the measure  of all  things and Aristotle  ssid: man is a political  animal. That animal  called  man according  to Baba  olusegun  obasanjo  with a book of the that : title: that  animal  called man.
Bandits  kidnappers  insurgents are largely men  from  being boys. Boys will  be boys.

So the  chairman code of conduct  bureau  Code of Conduct Bureau (CCB) in Nigeria  Dr. Abdullahi Usman Bello. has called  for a ministry of boys.i would  also  call for a ministtty of girls .
And a resuscitation  of the boys scout movement .girl's  guide girl scout and Brownie the length  and breadth  of nigeria 
Signed Augustine Togonu Bickersteth London England 🇬🇧 may 25 2026


Boys need mentors, safe spaces to thrive, FG, stakeholders stress
By : Ene Oshaba

Date: 25 May 2026 1:01pm WAT

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Concerned by rising social pressures, emotional neglect and increasing cases of gender-based violence involving young people, the Federal Government and key development partners have called for deliberate investments in the Nigerian boy-child through mentorship, emotional support and value-driven leadership programmes.

The call was made in Abuja during the second edition of the Boy-Child Roundtable Mentorship Programme organised by the Federal Ministry of Youth Development to commemorate the International Day of the Boy Child.

The event, themed “Champions of Change: Growth, Grit and Global Impact,” brought together government officials, youth advocates, development partners, private sector leaders and students to discuss the future of Nigerian boys and the need for intentional guidance in shaping responsible men.


Speaking on behalf of the Minister of Youth Development, Comrade Ayodele Olawande, the Permanent Secretary of the ministry, Dr. Maryam Ismaila, Keshinro, said Nigerian boys require “deliberate guidance, strong role models and safe spaces” to openly discuss their dreams, fears and aspirations.

She said the mentorship dialogue was designed to move beyond formal lectures and create “honest conversations where real learning can happen.”

“We recognise that in today’s rapidly changing world, our young boys need deliberate guidance, strong role models and safe spaces to talk about their futures, their challenges and their dreams,” she said.

Keshinro stressed that the initiative aligns with President Bola Tinubu’s Renewed Hope Agenda on youth empowerment and social inclusion, noting that mentorship remained critical to raising emotionally intelligent and responsible young men.


In a message that resonated strongly with participants, she added: “Teach the boys that vulnerability is a strength, and that compassion is their greatest armour.”

Earlier, Director of Youth, Health, Mental and Psychosocial Affairs in the ministry, Emmanuel Okonkwo, said the government was intentionally creating platforms where boys could learn resilience, discipline and leadership.

According to him, the mentorship initiative was conceived to nurture “responsible, resilient and value-driven young boys” capable of contributing positively to their families and communities.

He said: “We recognise that young boys require positive role models and platforms where they can openly discuss their aspirations, challenges and responsibilities.”

Okonkwo also urged participants to listen closely to the experiences shared by mentors and remain focused on building positive values.


Development partners at the event warned that the neglect of boys in conversations around gender and social development could undermine efforts to build safer communities.

Speaking on behalf of Plan International Nigeria, the organisation’s Head of Social Development, Laban Bako, recounted the distress call of a young female intern allegedly forced out of her residence by a male partner, arguing that many harmful behaviours stem from a lack of mentorship and emotional guidance for boys.

“For us in Plan International, everything has largely been about the girl-child, but we must also ask ourselves, who are the perpetrators of violence against girls? They are boys who were never guided,” he said.

He stressed the need for balanced interventions that support both girls and boys, warning that empowering girls alone without addressing the behaviour and mindset of boys would produce limited results.

“We have empowered the girls, yes, but have we sat down one day to intentionally talk to boys? Have we deliberately created mentors they can look up to?” he queried.

Bako further disclosed that Plan International already operates “Male Champions” community engagement groups to mentor boys and address issues such as gender-based violence and mental health.

Similarly, the Chief Executive Officer of House of Destiny Global Services, Dr. Israel Olajumoke, said investing in boys was ultimately an investment in the stability of society.

“We believe that investing in the boy-child is an investment in the very fabric of our society,” he said.


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Olajumoke cited the success story of a participant from the maiden edition who went on to develop animation skills and establish a media hub in his school after receiving mentorship support.

“It proves that when you give a young man the right guidance and tools, his potential is limitless,” he added.

Also speaking, Programmes Officer of the Girls and Youth Reintegration Network (GYRIN), Chima Enesopoli, said building an equitable society required equal investment in boys and girls.

“We cannot build a balanced, safe and equitable society by leaving half of our youth behind,” he said.

According to him, resilience and emotional intelligence were essential qualities for boys navigating social and economic challenges.

Meanwhile Senior Special Assistant to the Honourable Minister of Youth on Gender Matters, Kehinde Charity Awujoola, gave argued that gender inclusion should not be reduced to advocacy for girls alone.

“Often when people hear the word gender, they think we are only talking about girls. But true gender mainstreaming means supporting our young women and also helping boys redefine masculinity through accountability, emotional intelligence and positive leadership,” she said.

Awujoola recalled the story of a participant from the previous edition who developed advanced digital storytelling skills and later established a student media hub to train his peers.

“He is the living definition of a champion of change,” she said.

The event also featured spoken word performances, mentorship conversations and interactive sessions between students and mentors drawn from the public and private sectors.

In one of the emotional moments of the programme, spoken word artist Ifeoluwa Daniel delivered a performance titled “The Voice of the Pressurised Nigerian Boy,” lamenting societal expectations that force boys to suppress emotions and “become men before leaving childhood behind.”

“I was told to be strong before I learned to stand up,” he recited. “Men don’t cry, so I buried my pain where it won’t survive.”

Participants also engaged mentors on issues ranging from education and entrepreneurship to self-confidence and gender equality.

Senior Special Assistant to the President on Citizenship and Leadership, Rinsola Abiola, while responding to a question on why society appears to prioritise girls’ education, explained that the emphasis was aimed at correcting longstanding inequalities that often deny girls access to schooling.

“There is no gender more important than the other,” she said. “The reason government and advocates emphasise girls’ education is because many families still prioritise boys when resources are limited.”

Chief Executive Officer of PressPayNg, Abiola Metilelu, urged the students to see themselves as solution providers rather than victims of circumstance.

“Your future is hidden in the problems you are able to solve,” he said.

Metilelu shared how financial difficulties once denied him university admission, an experience that later inspired him to establish an education financing platform helping thousands of African students access school funding.

“Failure is not the end. Failure is just a bend,” he told the students.

The mentorship programme also featured representatives of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), Citizens Leadership Training Centre, civil society groups and youth-focused organisations.

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