These questions arise from her immersion in the very activity of living, in the dust of the daily commute, from home to office, from where she lives in Lagos to her office at Lagos State University, in the context of activities within her APC political constituency, research trips to explore Yoruba culture, debates on Facebook, physical world social activities, such as wedding ceremonies, birthday celebrations and the grand outing of her father to the world beyond, this range of activity evident in her Facebook photo albums.
Within such contexts, one may ask from time to time-what is really going on -beyond these activities one is engaged in?
Beyond these socially propelled engagements, what am I really within the immensities represented by this planet on which I roll within space, as the planetary sequence to which the Earth belongs, the Milky Way solar system, revolves round the galactic centre?
“How painful. I couldn't buy you that house nor buy that jeep I'd have loved you to drive. Solemnly my heart bleeds. You were a father a daughter like me should have. You taught me all my resilience, my rascality, to love family and rally them around all the time. To be a man in thinking and a woman in other ways. If there is another life you'll still be my father. Adieu to my best friend, Prince Yinusa Abayomi Bello-Ogunyomade.”
Facebook status update of 6 July 2013 by Adeyinka Bello in response to the final departure of her beloved father.
What follows is an an Egako/Afin clan oriki, a Yoruba praise poem, "passed down from oral tradition, a representative of a verbal art developed over time, comprising environment, religion/belief,craft and economic activities, physiological attributes, legendary stories[among other references, a form of ] woven artistry, describing an individual or a people," according to Adeyinka Bello, rendered by her and translated into English below by herself and Wale Adedayo:
“Scion of Owa, scion of a Tiger,
Scion of a place of refuge for the helpless,
Whoever seeks refuge there cannot get drenched in rain.
The one who does his festival like a lion.
The child of Ogun with teeth of swords.
The reflections are enormous if you are facing the rocks that surround Egako.
The child of Aweya stream, that a native would swim and win a medal.
The Aweya child swam so very much, he got a human being as a prize.
The child who kills when one is not willing to die.
This one loves beads to the extent of following a corpse to Oyo Kingdom.
Your ancestors were ever prepared for war, with a heart of steel.
They were fearless enough to traverse the sea.
Your ancestors were skillful enough to destroy the enemies in their hiding places.
Scion of the One who became an inlaw in Oyo for beauty's sake.
Scion of the Ever Loyal One, who will NEVER change his words.
One Tiger, one fierce curb,
The one that says and does.
Continue to rest in peace, my dear father!”
Earth to earth, the Christian rite intones at the place of internment. The human body is made from earth and to earth it returns at last, in the Christian creation narrative, a point that demonstrates universal metaphorical value in the kinship of the human body with earth, in its being made up significantly of water, and fed by nutrients from the earth, of which air and plants are central.
Evoking such a context, a classical African funeral song declares, "With my feet, I touch the goat's earth and with my hands I touch God's sky," linking the human aspiration to reach to the sky in imagination,worship and action with the earthy animality of the goat, representative of animals with which humans share the earth, the earth on which the goat passes waste matter, into which humans inter waste and into which human bodies decay, the earth, accepting all in silent embrace, an image of God as integrator of all possibilities, according to Akinsola Abiodun Solanke.
Echoing through this summation are the words of Parker in Cllifford Simak's story "The Whistling Well." The story reaches through humanity to the most temporally distant terrestrial ecosystem in Earth's history represented by the dinosaurs and even to beings whom the dinosaurs worshiped in that story, chtonic figures who reach out to Parker in the present to acknowledge brotherhood. He shrinks from their alienness but is compelled to acknowledge that "all life on earth is brother, and we carry with us if we will, the token of our faith".
Prince Yinusa Abayomi Bello-Ogunyomade has departed for the farthest shore, but in departing he affirms our kinship with all that is, trees bending in the wind, the force of time both empowering growth and dissipating power, as we reach irrevocably to the ultimate departure, in the face of which inevitability, between Being and Mystery, we must justify our existence.
Let Adeyinka Bello, her father's daughter, have the last word on the testimony of Prince Yinusa Abayomi Bello-Ogunyomade, in his journey through the spatio-temporal nexus orbiting the sun in the star's journey around the galactic centre:
'"That was one great soul. He didn't leave anything behind in material wealth but he left me his legacy as one of the few remaining prophets of that Supreme being known by many names.
I'm honored to have had him as a father.”
Adeyinka Bello at Institute of African Studies, University of Ibadan