But soon, puzzlement gave way to a deep-seated unease. Kim merrily announced in the introduction (which, at 5 sentences, is the longest string of prose in the book) that the hundreds of selfies in the book were only a snippet of the thousands she had to choose from. Thousands. Of pictures of herself. Taken by her. This is a type of vanity Narcissus himself would double-tap on Insta.
Here's the alternative to "Selfish". It's called "Unselfish". It released the same day (May 5), but is the complete opposite. It's a coffee table book of people who have turned the camera around: -unselfish
To be quite honest, I found this article to be very judgemental. You treat Kim, and anyone who takes selfies of themselves for that matter (as you have implicated millions of people with your judgement of Kim's selfies), as if they should be ashamed for being interested in their appearance and in extension taking pictures. The concept of selfies is not a new invention: portraits of individuals have been painted for thousands of years. Kings, Queens, the nobility, anyone who has had their appearance captured cannot be considered vain, can they? And if so, what is so wrong with being interested in your appearance? The way I see it, our own appearance is the most intriguing mystery to each and every one of us. We will never see what we look like - just reflections. Isn't that crazy? And so our appearance, it is intriguing and wanting to see more of it shouldn't be shunned. Isn't judgement as much of a bad attribute as vanity?
Sidenote, for me personally, taking selfies has saved my self confidence and has constructed a framework of healthy self esteem that I have developed for myself. Also, I take selfies for myself - I don't need validation anymore. If I want to show how awesome I look, I'll post it, but I I don't rely on compliments, anymore, to booster my self esteem, for simple compliments do nothing to provide a long lasting structure of a good image of yourself. And isn't this the same website that consistently promotes appearance positivity and yet in the same breath you label people who take selfies as conceited and vain?
I see these sort of articles all the time on Facebook or where ever, where a woman - and yes, it's most always a woman - is critiqued and made to seem stupid - for taking a simple selfie. Human beauty is interesting, and always will be interesting - especially to those that want to find out more about their own beauty. Being able to see what angles suit you best, or seeing what you look like in certain, is really, really intriguing and it makes me feel good to see myself in pictures that I have taken. I have taken thousands of selfies as well, and looking back at those selfies - most of which I delete by the way - it's fun to see what I looked like on a certain day or how I looked in certain makeup.
When society, a beauty industry, and hollywood continuously tell young people that they have to be a certain way and look a certain way to be beautiful, I don't understand why someone taking a picture of themselves which makes them feel good can ever be considered such an awful thing. Maybe your next article should be examining selfie culture, and why it's needed, rather than something as judgemental as this.
It pays to be selfish! Kim Kardashian's selfie addiction has proved lucrative, as the Los Angeles Times reports that she's landed a book deal for her self-taken pics. Titled Selfish, the 352-page hardcover book, priced at $19.95, is set to be released in April 2015 by Rizzoli New York and will feature some of the Keeping Up with the Kardashians star's best selfies. Kim started getting photos together during a recent trip to Thailand that was documented on her family's reality show. She said it was for a personal book of sexy shots for her husband Kanye West, but we suspect these pics will pop up in her new business endeavor. While we wait for Selfish to hit bookshelves, check out the sexiest, most scandalous selfies we could find of Kim.
While the pair seemed to hash things out last season on The Kardashians, Season 4's premiere kicked off with them already at odds with one another again. This time, the tension came after they began watching the Season 3 episodes as they dropped -- seeing the nasty comments they each made about other behind their backs during confessionals or conversations with other family members amid their feud.
ICYMI: Kourtney made it clear previously she felt Kim's collaboration with Dolce & Gabbana stepped on the toes of her recent wedding celebrations, during which she wore curated looks from the brand's vault. She also believed the partnership spoke to a larger issue she had with Kim, who she felt didn't prioritize family over business deals.
"The problem is, last season was really rough ... then we were over it, we had fun, we did that Christmas album, we talked it out, everything had been fine," Kim shared at the top of the Season 4 premiere. "And then we watched the edits for our show and I start hearing what she's saying about me, she hears what I'm saying about her, and then we get mad all over again. It brings up so many feelings."
As Kim, Khloe Kardashian, Kylie Jenner, Kendall Jenner, Kris Jenner and Corey Gamble all went on a trip together to Cabo, Kourtney sat out on vacation -- following a particularly explosive phone call with Kim days before they left. That call, thankfully, was caught on camera.
Kim rang her sister to invite her to a dinner in Milan to launch another campaign for her Dolce collaboration, extending an olive branch while acknowledging Kourtney probably wouldn't want to go. She was right, with Kourt saying she was "a little Dolce-d out." Though she said she was "always supporting" her sister, Kourtney still felt a certain type of way about the whole situation -- calling it "not cool" and adding they had "deeper things" to talk about.
"I understand, I got worked up watching the episode and watching the cut. I see both sides. You think things, so you're getting riled up. I think things, so I get riled up," said Kim, while Kourtney denied being "riled up." Instead, she said, watching the footage "just makes me not want to be around."
"You're talking about the bulls--t details because it's all your egotistical selfish mind can think about," Kourtney then said, beginning to unleash on her sister. "You cannot stand someone else being the center of attention. You came to my wedding, you couldn't be happy, you complained from the second you got there 'til the second you left, that's what it's about. You couldn't be happy for me, you couldn't be happy I was the center of attention and you weren't."
Kim exclaimed that she was, of course, happy for her sibling on her big day, telling Kourtney she needed to "dig deep and find out why you hate me so much and why you're so angry with me, because all of this never happened." She said she felt like Kourtney didn't believe she was happy because "you have a serious vendetta," adding, "You hate us, you're a different person, we all talk about it."
"I don't need you guys anymore, I don't need to be a part of it," Kourt shot back, before Kim claimed "all" of her sister's friends call the rest of the family "complaining" about her behavior. She added they all had a group chat labeled "NOT KOURTNEY" where they talk about everything her friends tell them and in which they try to "figure out why you're such a different person and you have this vendetta out."
Kim said they were all "concerned" and felt she wasn't really happy. Kourtney, however, said she was, just "not when I'm on the phone with you" -- before exclaiming, "I have a happy life and the happiness comes when I get the f--k away from you guys. Specifically, you."
Kourt then slammed her whole family for having side chats about her, asking, "Who the f--k has time?" She added, "Maybe you guys need to think about if you're not happy. Get a f--king life. I don't have side chats about anyone."
Kim then set off her sister by claiming Kourtney's own kids "have even come to me with problems they have and how you are." With that, Kourt was livid, wondering if Kim truly thought it was "helpful" to bring something like that into their fight. Getting audibly choked up, she exclaimed, "Like it's you and my friends and my kids and everyone against me. It's like you're just a f--king witch and I hate you."
"I think the phone conversation was really hurtful and I felt reminded of this characteristic that has been in my family for so many years, where we say mean things to hurt each other and it's what I work hard at in therapy to change," Kourtney said in a confessional after the call. "When I'm reminded of those types of things, it really is hurtful. Like, why would my family treat me that way? I want to protect my energy and be around positivity and good vibes and Palm Springs with my husband is where it's at."
"I think It's just, there's so many thoughts that come up after watching all of the edits," she responded. "I think it felt to me in the call, that Kim was using any weapon she could find to hurt me. Like weaponizing everyone against me and I think we both got to a place we weren't proud of."
"Sometimes I don't feel understood," she added. "I think it gets played out in an unnatural way, through the show and watching the edits and the interviews and it just brings it up, where people would just move on."
During the Cabo trip, Kim at least acknowledged some of Kourtney's previous complaints about her -- specifically how she never says no to anything, even if it could cause issues with her family. As she and her siblings shared their intentions for the year, she said she didn't want to "feel like I have to fill every available hour" with work, saying she hoped to "say no to more things" and "be more present."
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