One other possible clue:
It is not simply the USE of Accounts for logging in, since that happens all the time (hundreds of times per day).
It appears that memory usage goes up especially when new Accounts are CREATED
(which happens much less often - at most a few times per day).
I would note that memory usage also grows using Java 7, but much more slowly.
It appears to become 'too much' after (roughly) a week, whereas with Java 8,
it's more like a matter of hours.
Here is a snapshot from the last few days running Java 7:
07-06 19:14:03,137 - used 9.117 + free 8.255 = 17.372 MB ... immediately after restart
07-06 19:45:48,213 - used 33.617 + free 12.331 = 45.948 MB ... a few rooms added (and more will be added over time)
07-06 20:19:35,419 - used 23.462 + free 23.994 = 47.456 MB
07-06 21:29:22,234 - used 33.643 + free 29.821 = 63.464 MB
07-06 23:40:10,036 - used 49.005 + free 14.395 = 63.400 MB
07-07 08:41:12,581 - used 35.234 + free 28.230 = 63.464 MB
07-07 09:18:00,355 - used 51.914 + free 12.658 = 64.572 MB
07-07 13:46:52,308 - used 45.920 + free 21.668 = 67.588 MB
07-07 19:48:04,057 - used 32.559 + free 36.701 = 69.260 MB
07-07 23:18:32,855 - used 44.374 + free 26.362 = 70.736 MB
07-09 13:10:00,137 - used 38.904 + free 36.788 = 75.692 MB
07-09 15:24:49,090 - used 45.249 + free 32.279 = 77.528 MB
07-10 09:24:22,704 - used 53.016 + free 25.024 = 78.040 MB
07-10 12:05:26,549 - used 31.482 + free 46.622 = 78.104 MB
07-10 13:08:41,774 - used 54.757 + free 23.283 = 78.040 MB
07-10 13:55:10,725 - used 57.071 + free 21.033 = 78.104 MB
07-10 15:08:27,701 - used 48.065 + free 29.975 = 78.040 MB
07-10 17:17:04,279 - used 51.214 + free 26.890 = 78.104 MB
07-10 17:51:59,760 - used 31.124 + free 46.916 = 78.040 MB
07-11 10:21:59,756 - used 65.456 + free 13.660 = 79.116 MB
07-12 16:34:45,435 - used 68.883 + free 13.973 = 82.856 MB
07-12 17:47:55,067 - used 45.863 + free 37.317 = 83.180 MB
(time to restart when total goes over (conservatively) 80 MB, I believe, as that's when problems can start to occur)
07-13 03:40:16,787 - used 9.419 + free 7.725 = 17.144 MB