Hi, it was heartening to read your question because so few girls ask, "What do they want?" A friend of mine, Emily, always complained that her boyfriend was quiet and cold. But when she spoke to him honestly—without accusations, without expectations—he said, "I want someone who doesn't try to fix me every day... just be there for me." That's the truth. Guys, just like us, want connection and emotional security, they just don't know how to ask for it.
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