First off I'm slightly confused as to what you are trying to do, get the
standby button to work or program the remote to turn the TV volume up and
down? To turn the sky box off try pressing the 'Sky' button and then press
the standby button on the remote.
You don't need the standby button to program the remote to your TV, you
don't even need to be near your sky box or tv to program it, all you need
is the 3 or 4 digit code for your TV and the remote after all it's the
remote that you are programming and not the tv.
1 - Press the 'TV' button on the remote
2 - Hold the 'Select' and red buttons down until the LED flashes twice
3 - enter the code for your TV
4 - Press 'Select' again
Point remote at your TV and it should(!) turn the volume up and down. If it
doesn't then check the code for the TV or trundle along to the forum at
http://helpforum.sky.com/
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Isaac Hunt
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