On 27/07/2022 08:26, Kendall K. Down wrote:
> On 27/07/2022 07:54, Timreason wrote:
>
>> In fact, to some extent there you are talking my language. People
>> should live as they are, and that means society should accept them as
>> they are.
>
> No, society should not "accept them as they are". Should society accept
> paedophiles or necrophiles "as they are"?
A different question altogether, as well you know. Criminal acts against
children, etc., are a different matter altogether. For society to
function, criminal behaviour must be opposed.
But you are talking rather about enforcing on others your own beliefs
about morality. For example, I consider promiscuous sex to be 'immoral',
but I wouldn't support making it illegal.
> Society has the right to
> demand certain norms of behaviour - it does not have to dance to the
> demands of a tiny minority.
Some sorts of behaviour, yes, such as not stealing, etc. But it doesn't
matter if a bloke chooses to wear a pretty floral frock, or a woman
decks out in hobnail boots and lumberjack shirts. They're harming nobody.
>
>> I consider circumcision also to be a 'mutilation'. Sometimes it's
>> medically necessary, but often it's just done for religious or
>> cultural reasons.
>
> I would agree with you except that a) God mandated circumcision (of
> males), and b) there are health benefits for women in having men
> circumcised.
In the UK, most boys are not circumcised. I find it odd that God
designed us with a bit of skin, and then requires it to be cut off. Even
Paul said Christians do not need to be circumcised (even though he
arranged for Timothy to be circumcised.)
>
>> Yes, I've seen some horrendous pictures of people who have opted to be
>> mutilated. I don't even like those horrid stretched ear-lobes with
>> rings in that you see sometimes. But restricting adult choices is a
>> serious matter, even so.
>
> Oh nonsense. We force young adults to go to school,
Do we? I'm probably out of date. Maybe it's 18 now, but in my day it was
16. But I've always maintained that employment should be provided for
adults if it cannot be got on the open market. (If they refuse to work
they get no money, one of my more right-wing views. Does that surprise you?)
> we force all adults
> to wear seat belts, we are having a good stab at banning smoking and are
> heading towards banning drinking. When there are good enough reasons, we
> restrict choices without a qualm.
Safety reasons mainly. But how far do you want to dictate? Do you want
to ban ear-piercings? Women using lipstick? You're sounding a bit like
the Taliban!
>
>> But I do believe there are some people who genuinely DO experience
>> 'Gender Dysphoria', and are genuinely helped by surgery that changes
>> their appearance. The other thing being, in such cases they usually
>> look much better after the 'change' is complete, because they may be
>> happier and much more comfortable living as they feel they are.
>
> Being happier is not the be-all and end-all. There was something in the
> paper the other day about some chap in Australia who has finally broken
> his habit - he was huffing several hundred nangs[1] a day and was
> perfectly happy doing so. Didn't even mind the loss of his job and his
> marriage.
>
> Finally a health scare persuaded him to quit and guess what? He's
> discovered that he is far happier now than when he was out of his head.
The stuff you are referring to is Nitrous Oxide, I think, 'Laughing
Gas', the stuff dentists used to use to knock people out when I was a
kid. It's common place here in the UK too, since you often see the
little canisters discarded by the roadside.
I know about smoking, I quit 35 years ago, and am much better for
quitting. But again, it's an entirely different subject from the one we
are discussing here.
> I suspect that if these people could stop obsessing about their supposed
> "wrong gender", they too would be far happier.
Well, that's the point, really. They can stop 'obsessing' when they can
live according to the gender they feel they are.
>
>> That's why I say (a) it's a case-by-case matter, and (b) a medical
>> matter on which neither you or I am qualified to judge.
>
> Surprisingly, I agree with you. My concern is, however, that because it
> is "flavour of the month", everyone is rushing to dole out hormones and
> surgery and people are *not* being given the impartial advice they need.
Yes, I do share some of your concerns. But I don't think it's as bad as
you portray. Sometimes mistakes are made, but I've met several people
over the years who 'transitioned', and most are much better since. (I
can think of one example that maybe wasn't so successful).
Tim.