Kendall K. Down wrote:
> On 26/02/2023 11:23, John wrote:
>
>> Your definition of seduction is different to mine. In my book that's
>> sexual abuse and if penetration has taken place then it's rape.
>
> I can't help it if you have an idiosyncratic definition of seduction.
Obviously the 8th commandment isn't in your bible, given how often you
break it. You have seriously misrepresented me here and going forward.
>>> Even that is a dubious claim. Take an all-too-common situation:
>>> supposing that we had the death penalty, which would be better, for a
>>> rapist and murder to be killed or for a random woman off the street
>>> to be raped and killed?
>
>> I'm actually staggered by that comment. The original scenario is by
>> mutual consent where both succumbed to sin. Not right of course but
>> both can be forgiven. The woman raped and murdered by the rapist has
>> absolutely no choice, so to compare the two as similar scenario's is
>> quite unbelievable.
>
> I notice that with all your faux outrage, you carefully avoid answering
> the question. And, by introducing "mutual consent" you are further
> muddying the waters. The priests (or other clergy, I'm not attacking the
> Catholics here)
Oh but you did, because you singled out Catholic Priests.
> who seduce choir boys might well think that there was
> mutual consent. It was only afterwards that the choir boy realised and
> resented.
A Priest who molests an underage boy (or girl) does it in full knowledge
that it's against the law, as well as being immoral. If you get the
chance I would suggest watching Broken, about a young Catholic boy
interfered with by the Priest, and who later became a Priest himself,
haunted by flashbacks of the abuse he suffered. and although this drama
is based on a Catholic Priest, sexual abuse to children by adult
Christians is by no means exclusive to Catholicism.
>> Nor are they innocent.
>
> So a choirboy seduced by a priest is, ipso facto, a ravening homosexual
> and definitely not innocent. He was asking for it!!!
Again you have misrepresented my comments, and twisted it to make it
look like we are referring to the choirboys. Of course the choirboy is
innocent
You introduced the choirboys, not me. You know full well I am referring
to an adult Christian persuading another adult Christian into sin, and
although we were referring to homosexuals, the same goes for
heterosexuals as well. Snipping out my comments to make it look like
I've referring to something else is dishonest, but it's a regular trait
with you.
> Talk about victim blaming!
Are you deliberately being contemptuous* or is it something you can't help?
* There is a more apt word, but not appropriate to use on a Christian
newsgroup.
>
>>> If they were not baptised, they would not be Christians, would they?
>
>> Sorry Jeff, oops I mean Ken. Strange, I thought you became a
>> Christian when you accepted Jesus as your Lord and Saviour. Baptism is
>> simply an outward act confirming that.
>
> Pedantically, you are correct. In practical terms, if someone has
> accepted Christ into their lives, they will be eager to live according
> to His will and there will be no question of them cohabiting and
> continuing in that state. However people may well start coming to church
> and only gradually grow into the stage where they have fully accepted
> Christ into their lives.
Whilst I agree that someone becoming a Christian will invariably lead to
a changed life, and yes, in theory that would involve looking at the
cohabitation issue, it's not that simple. I became a Christian in 1985,
I was engaged at the time, and saw nothing wrong with having sex with my
fiancee, and no idea it was a sin. Yes, there was that bit in the bible
that said avoid sexual immorality, but I didn't consider what we were
doing was part of that. It was only when I read the passage in a
different version and it said avoid fornication, that I realised, and we
stopped doing it.
My point is, that although cohabitation (and fornication) is wrong for
Christians, it doesn't bring the same outrage that sexual activity
between homosexuals does) Society has changed over the last 50-60
years, and thankfully for homosexuals Society has become a lot more
tolerant. For Christian homosexuals, that does cause some dilemma, but
if they are sinning it is no worse, or better, than heterosexuals
sinning. You wouldn't think so though the way you and other
conservative Christians rail on about it.
>>> When it is God giving the legal sanction.
>
>> Did God not do this in Matthew 19v8?
>
> All right. Answer this: when Jesus said "But I say unto you, do not
> hate", was He nullifying and replacing the law against murder? Or was He
> supplementing it with the counsel of perfection to which Christians
> should aspire?
>
>> Well I'm sorry, but that isn't in the text of either Matthew or Mark.
>> Verse 9 of Mark is particular pertinent I would say.
>
> It doesn't need to be. It was already in the law of God in Deuteronomy.
So are you saying that Jesus is unable to change the law? I hear what
you're saying by the way in regards to hate, so I'm not dismissing what
you say, but it makes for some interesting thoughts, after all, isn't
Jesus the one who made the Deuteronomy law in the first place?
>> Paul doesn't say they should get divorced, merely that they should
>> separate.
>
> And you can quote authorities to prove that the distinction between
> separation and divorce was known in the Roman world?
Fair enough, I don't know but I presume there wasn't a distinction
>> Disobey Christ? I thought you said it was just an ideal, and if the
>> marriage broke down irretrievably it was ok to divorce and later marry
>> a moire suitable wife/husband if one came along?
>
> One partner to the marriage may be eager to obey Christ and remain
> married, but if the other partner is determined to divorce - and in
> these days of "no fault" divorces, that is quite possible - what to you
> suggest the Christian partner do?
>
> Come on, tell us what your pastoral counsel would be? Just to help you,
> it's usually a woman who is abandoned by her husband. What would you
> tell her?
It would depend on the individual circumstances. I would of course urge
her to remain with her husband as long as there was no abuse in the
marriage, but ultimately hat would be her decision.
If one of them isn't a Christian then Paul's instructions come into
play, but I don't believe that the Christian should instigate divorce
proceedings.