On 03/11/2021 20:05, Mark Goodge wrote:
> I couldn't help but contrast it with another funeral I recall attending
> in my capacity as a councillor, that of a member of staff who died
> suddenly. That took place at a nearby crematorium, and, unlike today's
> was entirely secular in nature. No hymns, no religious readings, no
> prayers and, it has to be said, no hope. The family of the deceased were
> clearly devastated to have lost her, and nothing could console them -
> and no consolation was, or could be, offered.
Yes, I had to attend a secular funeral a couple of years ago and that
fact was clearly in evidence. You know, even if Christianity was not
true and that this life was the end, I believe that living in hope is
far superior to living in despair - and, if the atheists are right,
they'll never know it! So they get life-long despair and don't even have
the pleasure of being able to say "I told you so" at the end.
> After the service, we made our way to the town hall for the wake. My
> former colleague was, in his day job, the proprietor of a fish and chip
> shop. So, at the wake, we were served fish and chips. It seemed very
> appropriate.
Good one.
> Even
> though I don't, entirely, approve of praying for the dead, I fully
> approve of the correct use of liturgy and language.
There is the thought that God can (and does) answer our prayers before
we utter them. ("Before they call I will answer.") I know of no reason
to think that this promise is time-limited. We are comfortable with the
thought that God might set in motion the answer to our prayers ten
minutes or half an hour in advance of our praying; why not half a year
or even several years?
That being so, although I agree with you that prayers for the dead will
not affect their state subsequent to death, it is conceivable that they
might affect things before they die.
In particular I am thinking of those whose loved ones are not saved and
who die in that state. Clearly if you know that they died reprobate
there isn't much point in praying; but suppose you did not learn of
their death until some time later and do not know their spiritual
condition at the time of death. It would be reasonable to pray for their
salvation even after their death, in the belief that God would give them
extra attention before death as a result of your prayer after death.
Sorry if that's a bit convoluted.
God bless,
Kendall K. Down