On 09/01/2024 18:41, John wrote:
> On 09/01/2024 17:55, Timreason wrote:
>> On 09/01/2024 10:15, John wrote:
>
>> There is a degree to which we should recognise that we ALL are sinners
>> and fall short of God's standard. Also, we should not assume sinful
>> behaviour where there may, in fact, be none; no matter how likely it
>> may seem that there is.
>
>> We should also be aware of the danger of singling out people we
>> suspect of sins that we would probably not be tempted by ourselves.
>
> Yes definitely. but if sin is taking place and the church leaders are
> aware, should they allow that sin to continue? eg Mr Jones has been
> having it away with Mrs Smith and they are caught in an embarrassing
> situation, what should the church leaders do?
It would be unusual for them to be actually caught in the act of
adultery. I suppose there's a whole lot of other considerations that
might be relevant. What about Mrs Jones, what about Mr Smith?
Certainly it's something that would need to be resolved. The Bible gives
some guidance as to how churches should handle such matters - but my
point is that every case is different, and pushing people away from
fellowship also pushes them away from help and support. Perhaps it would
be best to at least look for some way forward to sort out the mess.
>>
>> Then there are differing beliefs over what actually constitutes a sin.
>> Of course, ANY sin is unacceptable to God. Stealing a paperclip from
>> work does break one of the Big Ten. But most of us consider it to be
>> less of a sin than murder, another of the Big Ten.
>
> I was taught that no sin is greater or less in God's eyes. We know
> there is (a) sin that leads to death but all others are forgivable if
> repented of. Red paint spoils white paint whether it's a little drop or
> the whole tin, but God can make the paint white again.
Which is why I presented the rather silly idea of nicking a paperclip,
alongside murder. Certainly, from our intuition some sins are worse than
others. Also, not all sins can be put right. Another paper clip could
replace the stolen one, but bringing someone back to life is a bit more
difficult.
The main thing is, we all sin, sometimes through ignorance, sometimes
deliberately, and traditional liturgies of confession and repentance
take these things into account. So, even if a person sins because they
do not believe what they did is a sin, they have still asked for
forgiveness. Repentance means genuinely not intending to repeat a sin -
but if they do not recognise their own sin then the Holy Spirit will (I
believe) lead them to awareness of it, but it may take some time.
>
>> Further to that, and has often been discussed in this group, there is
>> the consideration of whether rules of ALL the Old Testament law apply
>> to Christians, or just the Big Ten. If we accept that all
>> six-hundred-and-whatever must apply, then what about all the ones
>> almost no-one keeps today?
>
> Acts 15 gives a clear enough distinction imo, but really anything that
> is displeasing to God. There's also lots of advice in the NT.
To me, as we are under the New Covenant, we are always to be mindful of
the two central commands: To love God and to Love our neighbour. We will
please God if we keep these commands - and logically, the worst thing we
can do is to fail to love, be it God or neighbour.
>
>
>> So, as far as I'm concerned, all these issues come into it, and there
>> are a wide range of differing beliefs on what constitutes sinful
>> behaviour, what rules apply and what rules from the Old Testament (if
>> any) can be disregarded.
>>
>> As a person who believes in the "Inclusive Church", I would say we
>> must recognise that people are still our brothers and sisters in
>> Christ, even if we disagree with their POV on some of these issues,
>> and therefore we should continue to offer them acceptance in fellowship.
>
> So if Mr Jones and Mrs Smith are unrepentant and want to continue their
> laison, should the church continue to offer them acceptance of fellowship?
I don't know. Should it be a binary? Either 'In' or 'Out'? Personally, I
see a danger in pushing people away from fellowship, as that may also be
pushing them away from God, and I wouldn't want to be responsible for
doing that. Maybe there's a half-way, perhaps welcoming them to prayer
meetings, but not Holy Communion? I say, I don't know. But fortunately
it's not a decision I would have to make.
>
> I had in mind Galations 6:1. If the person is repentant that would be
> great, but lets say you are a very good friend of Mr Jones and it was
> you who was aware that they were a lot more than just friendly towards
> each other, and you have a friendly word.
> How would you deal with him if he remained unrepentant?
>
I would certainly offer to pray with him and for him. But of course, as
I said, in real life every case is different and complex. I suppose one
would need to help search for a way forward to resolve the mess.
Tim.