On 13/12/2022 21:47, John wrote:
> At the time we were talking about Indonesians. Indonesians can't have
> child brides so your premise was false. Oh, and change your allows to
> allowed, it was ruled out in India in 2005 ish.
Sharia law was changed in 2005? You do surprise me.
> Incidentally, and something I meant to ask on the other post, why was
> your adopted sister allowed to marry an old man at the age of 12? For a
> muslim man to take a child bride (where its allowed) they have to have
> the permission of the father. Did your father grant such permission?
She was not my adopted sister then.
Long story: we moved to a new town and my mother asked a local
acquaintance for help in finding a servant. To our astonishment a couple
of days later this girl (memory says she was 10) turned up with a "chit"
to say that she would make a good servant.
Which was an ethical problem. Naturally my parents would not employ
child labour. On the other hand, if she needed the work, she would go
elsewhere where she would be paid a pittance and expected to work all
the hours God sends. Their solution was to hire her but send her to
school in the morning. She only worked in the afternoon when a) all us
children had chores to perform, and b) she was only given light tasks
suitable to her age.
Two years later she suddenly failed to appear and we had just about
given her up when she returned, wearing a burkha. Enquiries revealed
that she was now a married woman and her husband was an old man. As this
was against the law, my father went to her home with steam coming out of
his ears.
It turned out that her father was a bhishti (water carrier) and lugging
a goat skin of water around in the winter for many years had given him
TB. He was dying and marrying off his daughter was the only way he could
think of to ensure her future.
My father then offered to adopt the girl and her father agreed. It cost
us to buy her out of the marriage, pay for the lawyers and so on, but
she became my sister, of whom I am very proud.
> Do you know this for certain. Islamic countries are far more strict on
> law breaking than the western world, and I very much doubt a muslim
> would take a child ride if the marriage wasn't legal (which is Sharia law)
Are you aware of the political situation in the Yemen at the moment?
> So Sharia law advocates sex with children does it, as opposed to the
> social norms in the country where it has taken place?
Allows, not advocates. After all, even Muhammad married a girl of 8 (a
fact which has only been disputed since Muslims became aware of Western
sensibilities on the subject).
> And yes, I agree that sex with children was more rife 50-100 years ago,
> and that muslim countries have taken longer to catch up with western
> trends, but lets not forget that until 1929 the legal age for a girl to
> marry was 12.
And later in other countries - isn't it Holland that has only recently
raised the age for marriage? Nevertheless, the discussion was on whether
Muslims entering Britain *now* would be expected to conform to British
laws *now*, in the same way as tourists visiting Indonesia *now* are
expected to conform to this new law.
Incidentally, I was amused to notice that Bali has made haste to assure
tourists that they will not be prosecuted for sleeping around. I presume
the Balinese authorities have in mind "sleeping around amongst
themselves". It would probably still be risky to get frisky with local
women whose husbands or other relatives might complain. The report also
stated that the new law "has caused consternation around the world".
Hee hee.