Lilian Carpenter, who has died aged 91, was for 57 years married to
her husband, Edward, who from 1974 served as the dean of Westminster
Abbey. They made it into a lively, open and welcoming place of worship
that encouraged interfaith dialogue and engaged with global issues.
The Dalai Lama, who once stayed at the deanery, described Lilian as
his "English mother"; for him alone she deviated from her
vegetarianism to grill bacon for breakfast.
http://www.guardian.co.uk/theguardian/2008/dec/17/obituary-other-lives
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